Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces

Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces

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When Every Why Goes Unanswered

When our world comes crashing down, it does more than steal our peace. Something inside us tears. We feel broken, stranded—torn.

We naturally ask the question “Why?” when we’re hurting. But as pastor Jud Wilhite turned to the Bible in his own pain, he was surprised to discover that another question matters more: “Who?” Who is worthy of our trus...more
Paperback, 224 pages
Published August 16th 2011 by Multnomah Books
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Michael Boling
Author, speaker, and pastor Jud Wilhite provides a valuable commentary on the issues we all face when it comes to dealing with understanding the why of suffering, pain, and evil that seems so rampant not just in the world but in our everyday experiences. Many noted scholars, philosophers, and theologians have wrestled with developing a theodicy that holistically answers the problem of evil. C. S. Lewis, N. T. Wright, Alvin Platinga, and others have offered their attempt at analyzing this rather...more
Harold Cameron
When I saw the title of this book I just knew I had to get a copy of it and read it and I am glad that I did.

In his very relevant for the times we live in book, the author addresses the age old issue of trusting God when our lives falls apart around us. Having been there myself – that is, having had my world come crashing down on me into thousands of pieces which no mortal could put back together again, (“having broken life and not being able to fix it”); and only God could, I wanted to read aut...more
Jenn LeBow
Though I am not currently experiencing a fresh trauma, I was interested in reading Jud Wilhite's book, Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces, because I saw that he diverts readers from "why" questions about their situations to "who" questions.

Almost seven years ago, my 31-year-old sister, athletic and slender, joyful and generous, died suddenly while she was on her regular brisk morning walk. She was at the top of her game, enjoying professional success and exploring new prospects, a...more
Kate
This book offers hope when hurting, peace from the earth's trials and love from the only one who can ease pain, God. I learned so much from this book and I took my time in reading it so the author's words and thoughts could sink in and I could reflect on what I had read. The personal life stories contained within this well written book tear at your heart and I realized that my life has not been as difficult as what others have endured. This book brings understanding and truth that no matter what...more
Cindy Navarro
"When our world comes crashing down, it does more than steal our peace. Something inside us tears. We feel broken, stranded—torn." When I read that on the back cover of the book, I could immediately identify with this statement. Pastor Jud Wilhite has gone through his own moments of being torn and turned to the Bible as he sought comfort and understanding. He also found that rather than asking "Why?", he needed to ask, “Who?”. Who can be trusted to help mend the ripped pieces of your hopes, drea...more
Erin
"Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces" is a book that reads like a candid conversation about real life hardships. It's refreshingly honest and I knew it was going to be good when I came across this gem in the very first chapter:

"[...] the primary equipment you need to trust God in your pain and suffering is your pain and suffering. You already have the necessary tools; you just need the skilled hands of a loving God to wield them."

Wilhite tackles the age old "Why?" question with wi...more
Marcus Lynn
I’ve never read a book by Jud Wilhite, pastor of Central Christian Church in Las Vegas, NV, but I have heard him speak on 2 occasions. I was moved both times by his story-telling as it applied Scriptural truths to my life. In Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces he does the same thing.

He breaks his book into 2 parts: 1) trusting God when torn; and 2) Putting the pieces back together. While I have no criticisms of part one, I found Wilhite at his strongest in part 2, particularly in...more
Heidi
Aug 09, 2011 Heidi rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Christians, those who are going through problems,
Recommended to Heidi by: Goodreads giveaway
As this is a goodreads giveaways book I like to write my review as I go along. This helps me to keep the book fresh in my mind as I go off and do other things, and you (the reader of this review) get the best review that I can do.

Part 1: Trusting God When Torn
I like the layout of this book so far. Reverend Jud Wilhite is not going to let you get lost in babbling. He has a great sense of humor in his writing style. It is almost as if he is sitting in the chair next to me.
There was a few quotes...more
April
TORN: TRUSTING GOD WHEN LIFE LEAVES YOU IN PIECES by Jud Wilhite is a great Christian Living tool. It is written with details. When every question seems to go unanswered,you wonder why,but God's answers are sometimes hard for us to hear. This book explores your questions as well as God's answers and his mysteries. It gives you practical ways to have joy,deal with depression,anger,make decisions,help a broken heart,your ease your suffering while having a relationship with God. A great resource to...more
Emily
I won this book as a free giveaway.

I thought this book was tremendous. While I don't see myself as a "torn" person at the moment (thank God), I still thought that the information and advice the book provided was great. I was particularly impressed with the second half of the book. Each chapter supplied fresh insight and helpful suggestions on how to live life once you've been spiritually/emotionally/mentally/physically torn. There were great Biblical references that the author used to illustrate...more
Matthew Miller
Jud wilhite skillfully talks to those in pain or who have known pain. He mixes a personal storytelling style with comforting scripture, practical thoughts and inspired direction. I know that every person at one time or another has been "Torn". There are the questions and the feelings and the searching. Wilhite is not afraid of the tough questions and facing the pain. I found several times where I just had to set the book down so that I could mull over the words and then later continue on.
Trina
Aug 14, 2011 Trina rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Goodreads first reads win
Shelves: first-reads
Goodreads Giveaway win!

Written in a conversational tone and references secular things for easy comparisons (movies, TV shows, Apple and Starbucks). Humor and understanding for life's big and small frustrations. Excellent summations of each chapter to clarify main points. The study guide in the book is a great resource to allow someone to talk about their pain with a group through guided discussion.

The best chapter of the book is Chapter 2 Reframing Your Expectations. An excerpt: ".... When God p...more
Cindy
Oct 11, 2011 Cindy rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: All
Shelves: finished
I found this book was insightful and full of "How to" Trust in Christ when we don't understand "why" we have this pain. This is a great read for anyone struggling with depression, or dealing with loss. This book is also helpful in counseling or helping someone who is depressed or torn by life's darker moments. I enjoyed the book format and movement, supplying many scriptures from the Bible. Highly recommend
Sandy Sandmeyer
Oct 07, 2011 Sandy Sandmeyer marked it as to-read
(Thank you so much for using your platform for the Never Beyond poster series. As a way of thanking you, Pastor Jud Wilhite, Mike Foster, and the People of the Second Chance would like to send you a free copy of Pastor Jud’s newest book, Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces.)
Becky Giovagnoni
This is a quick, easy read. Although nothing in it was earth shattering, it was well-written and a good reminder of the truth. I enjoyed the fact that it was clear and simple, especially in light of the fact that talking about a subject that often becomes theologically cumbersome.
Angel Smith
Aug 04, 2012 Angel Smith rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: those needing encouragement
Just finished reading Torn. Overall I found it to be a very good read. I appreciated the honesty of the Author and his ability to communicate the reality of the emotions that one can experience when being or feeling "Torn".
Jessica Weleski
I thought that Wilhite showed a good bit of intuition and experience as he wrote about Torn. I have a review posted to my blog: http://oneenglishteacher.wordpress.co...
Melissa
This book came into my possession just one week after the sudden passing of my spouse. To read its pages were painful and necessary as I struggle in what Wilhite describes in the book as the Dark Night of the Soul (Referencing St. John of the Cross). Page after page I am reminded that God was good before my tragedy and He is still good now. I may never know why I entered into these circumstances, but by focusing on the WHO instead of the WHY, I am more apt to see God's blessing through this brok...more
Kristina Franken
Another great book by Jud. Thanks for making it a series.

I bought this book from Central's 242 Cafe and Bookstore and you can too.
Chris Giovagnoni
As good a book as any if you're struggling with distance from God.
Michele
Jun 19, 2011 Michele marked it as to-read
I thik I need this book.
Raquel
Jun 19, 2011 Raquel marked it as to-read
I want his book
Whoa
Goodreads giveaway!

What an awesome self help book. It's really for people who are more religious based, because, as the title says, God is the main element in here.
There's advice in there that helps you rethink situations and how to deal.
Lisa
This book was very informative! I found out a lot about myself and the things i need to change in my life....
I would recommend this book to everybody wether you are going through a hard time or not.
Fiona
I received Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces in a first-reads give away. Take your time reading it. Mull it over and share it with others. Plenty to take in and a very down to earth delivery.
Keri


Not my favorite, but I know others like it.
Leslie Robl
Apr 22, 2013 Leslie Robl marked it as to-read
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