Bobblehead Dad: 25 Life Lessons I Forgot I Knew

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Bobblehead Dad: 25 Life Lessons I Forgot I Knew

by Jim Higley (Goodreads Author)

4.01 of 5 stars 4.01 · rating details · 70 ratings · 32 reviews

An inspirational account of one dad's extraordinary journey through cancer, fatherhood, and several forgotten life lessons--and the discovery of one life-changing gift. Jim Higley was a forty-year-old bobblehead. Just like those collectible figurines with oversized, bouncy heads, he'd put on a smiling face and bobble through his hectic, overflowing days.

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Paperback, 201 pages

Published June 1st 2011 by Greenleaf Book Group LLC

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Sep 23, 2011 Kristin rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-reads

I won this book in Goodreads First Reads.

It was a really great and inspiring read and I'm so happy to have had the privilege of reading it. For an ARC is was really well done, easy to read, spelling and grammar were good and most of all it was difficult to put down.

It's easy to forget how lucky we really are and how much our parents really know until it's too late. It was amazing to see life through another persons eyes as he battled with a life threatening disease and read as he battled it to...more

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May 02, 2012 Sandy rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: nook, own

“Words can heal. They can surprise. They can encourage. It doesn’t matter if they are handwritten or if a Hallmark had to be leaned on for a little help. Words matter. Because they remind each of us who we are to the people in our lives.” Aren’t these just wonderful words to reflect upon on? These words are just a few of the wonderful statements that Jim enlightens his readers with as we traveled back in time with Jim, when he was a child growing up with his brothers and his parents and also as...more

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Aug 04, 2011 Julia rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: cancer

I was interested in reading this book, in part because of my daughter's battle with leukemia. This book was about a 44 year old man battling prostrate cancer, but the emotions brought up with a cancer diagnosis are universal.

The life lessons learned in this book are nothing we all haven't heard before. Enjoy life to its fullest, cherish every day you have, value family and friends over possessions. We all know we should be doing this, but sometimes it takes something as serious as cancer to remi...more

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May 21, 2011 Amanda rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: own

This is a truly inspiring story of man that has been diagnosed with cancer and then after surgery on a summer of recovering he is hit by many memories from his childhood. As he reflects on all of the loving memories of his life he is faced with a realization that he has been missing more in his life then he has been actually enjoying and he is forced to decided what he will do with the rest of his life.
I would also like to say I have had to many of my family members die from cancer and my dad...more

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May 21, 2011 Darlene rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Most adults

Recommended to Darlene by: First-Reads, GoodReads

Shelves: first-reads, memoir

Yay! I won this book on GoodReads First-Reads! I can hardly wait to start reading it. It looks like fun.

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This was a delightful read about some very unfortunate life and death issues. For an ARC it was quite clean, easy to read. If there were mistakes I never noticed them. But dropping into another's life and thoughts helped me see things through another's eyes. That's is how I perceived this book. Jim Higley tells his story of present and past in such a seamless way that I feel a part of his...more

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May 27, 2011 Joelle rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-reads

Bobblehead Dad is not only a story about a man who is diagnosed with cancer and his recovery, it is a story of love and a challenge to love for today. Jim Higley has a way to your heart with his memories from his childhood and entwining them with the present day. A marriage of the past and present that will have you misty eyed by chapter 3 and laughing and shaking your head just picturing the scene in chapter 19. Bobblehead Dad is a must read for anyone who has fought the fight or been a cheerle...more

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Sep 06, 2011 Sheldon rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: own, memoir-and-biography, first-reads

Bobblehead Dad by Jim Higley is a nonlinear memoir told in the form of 25 lesson the author has learned during his life. In his forties, the author was diagnosed with prostate cancer and had to take stock of his life, the legacy he was given by his family, and the legacy he would leave to his children. He described himself as a bobblehead in the introduction, a plastic figure who always had a constant smile no matter what influences or stimuli were thrown at him and simply bobbled throughout his...more Bobblehead Dad by Jim Higley is a nonlinear memoir told in the form of 25 lesson the author has learned during his life. In his forties, the author was diagnosed with prostate cancer and had to take stock of his life, the legacy he was given by his family, and the legacy he would leave to his children. He described himself as a bobblehead in the introduction, a plastic figure who always had a constant smile no matter what influences or stimuli were thrown at him and simply bobbled throughout his day, but that it was still a plastic smile and he wasn't really living. Hence the title of the book.

The lessons are short and seem to be pretty much common sense, although the author acknowledges this near the end of the book. He explains that while most people know these lessons and they may seem easy, they also seem to be difficult to actually put into practice. It would have been better if the author had acknowledged this near the beginning of the book rather than at the end, because it leads to a bit of frustration and forehead slapping.

The author's story is told in a nonlinear style. Each chapter/lesson is divided into two parts. The first is a personal memory, usually of growing up in a house where he was the youngest of five boys. At the age of fourteen, he lost his mother rather suddenly to brain cancer. Later, he lost his father, and then his brother, both to cancer. He shares personal memories of these particular parts of his life. The second part of each chapter involves how these parts influenced his feelings and reactions during the time he was diagnosed with prostate cancer, the time leading up to his surgery, and his recovery. Each chapter concludes with the lesson that he took away these experiences.

There are some distinct problems with Bobblehead Dad, the first being the title. Higley describes what he means by being a bobblehead in the introduction. This is where the problem starts, however. Through the rest of the book, I just don't get it. It didn't make sense as to why or how being a bobblehead related to these lessons. It seems like he forgot what the original motif was shortly after starting it. So, why he chose the title and went to the trouble of describing what he meant in the introduction seemed confusing and ultimately disappointing, like getting literary blue balls.

I can tell what Higley is going for with his nonlinear storytelling in the memoir. It creates an interesting feel, and he's clearly going for the effect of pulling different pieces of his life together like a jigsaw puzzle to use as teachable moments and ultimate lesson that he has at the end of the book. The only problem is that it...just...doesn't...quite...work, at least not for this reviewer. Let me be clear that there's a certain charm to the approach. There definitely is. At the same time, though, it can be frustrating or, at worst, confusing as the reader tries to piece together this life from different non-contiguous and nonlinear parts. It's a style that I found interesting, but it also feels like it needed more time to cook.

Ultimately, Bobblehead Dad was not without it's interesting moments or style, and I can't fault Higley for trying something a little new and in a style that's not seen often. It's part memoir and part self-help book. At the same time, it's not without some major problems and at times falls flat, and while the style of the book is interesting, it felt like the style was also experimental needed more time time and editing. My heart goes out to the author and his family for the struggles they've gone through in fighting his cancer and the losses they've suffered. But this book feels like it comes up short in telling of this struggle, which makes it difficult to fully recommend.

Bobblehead Dad earns 2.5 out of 5 stars, although since we can't give half-stars on this system, it gets the benefit of the doubt and gets three stars.

Note: A free Advanced Reader's Copy of this book was sent to this reviewer through a Goodreads First Read giveaway. This did not affect this review in any way.(less)

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May 16, 2011 Meagan rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: memoir, first-reads

I am very impressed by this book. While Higley's perspective on cancer is not incredibly unique, his perspective on life and the connections between events in our lives provides valuable lessons for readers. I believe that the subtitle of the book, the style of writing, and the layout of the book perfectly parallel the author's intentions, and I appreciate the way that Higley challenges readers without being overly conversational.

Some of the lessons are not unique, but some are articulated in a...more

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May 20, 2011 Julie Lorraine rated it 5 of 5 stars

Bobblehead Dad is an inspirational, fun to read book. It is a quick read that you will not want to put down. When it is finished, you wish it would go on. In a witty way, the book takes you through the authors cancer journey with each step relating back to a childhood memory. It is upbeat, positive and funny! It definitely will make you a better person when you are done reading it. A great idea for Father's Day!

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Sep 17, 2011 Dave Moyer rated it 3 of 5 stars

I guess private relationships are private, but when you do a memoir of personal experiences, it seems that some things have to be a part of it, and leaving out all reference to his divorce is a bit questionable. At any rate, this account of life's simple lessons in the midst of a cancer battle does help the reader keep some focus on what's important and how to simplify in a complicated society.

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May 23, 2011 Jemma rated it 5 of 5 stars

Bobblehead Dad was a cover to cover read; I could not put it down. I loved how the author wove his childhood experiences into his present day fight against cancer. Having lost family & friends to cancer, I really related to this book. For anyone who has personal, or knows anyone who has battled cancer, this is a must read. You will laugh, cry, and end feeling lighter & uplifted. Truly inspiring!

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Jun 02, 2011 Chitoka Webb rated it 5 of 5 stars

A story about survival that will inspire you. This is one of those books that you will remember fifteen years from now.
Before you know it, Jim’s confidence and determination to live as seeped into that portion of doubt that lives within all of us causing it to pulverize. I can assure you, if you read it once you will find yourself reading it twice.

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Jul 28, 2011 Miri rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-reads, nonfiction

This book has a lot of really great messages. It is, however, super dramatically written, and that always makes me a little cynical. Jim Higley uses dramatic writing techniques--like parenthetical dashes--too often, and in places where they don't really make sense grammatically.

He indents--the way writers do for emphasis--far, far too often.

For sentences that aren't actually emphatic.

Like this one.

That is my primary complaint. As far as the story goes, it's nothing earth-shattering, but it is...more

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Jun 23, 2011 Kitty Bullard rated it 5 of 5 stars

JIM HIGLEY'S "BOBBLEHEAD DAD" (REVIEW)

I am in love with Jim Higley and his family. I honestly do not think there is anyone out there that will read this story and not fall in love with the man. I fell in love with his spirit, his warmth, and his overall determination to not only defeat cancer but to keep a positive attitude, learn from the experience and live every day to the fullest. This book is one of a kind, his experience is richly woven in such a way that it keeps you reading. Anyone that...more

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Jan 08, 2012 Sandra Orlando rated it 5 of 5 stars

Bobblehead dad...now I see myself as Bobblehead mom! this was a great, inspiring read. This book, at minimum, has reminded me how important it is to live day-to-day and to quit focusing on the future. Every time I catch myself bobbing my head, I chuckle, open my ears and focus on the hear and now.

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May 25, 2011 David Richardson rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-reads

The message I got from this book is to slow down and pay attention to what is going on in your life. Time passes too quickly to take anything for granted. Enjoy today! I received this book for free from the Goodreads first read giveaway.

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Jul 11, 2011 Peggy rated it 3 of 5 stars

Story about a dad dealing with cancer and the effects of it on himself and his family. How he comes to deal with it and how he comes to see that the little day to day events are important.

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Jun 06, 2011 Paisley rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: books-i-own

This book was very easy to read. I liked the short chapters with each chapter being a lesson. I feel like this book would be very enjoyable to someone older than me and may appeal more to males. Being a teenage female i didnt relate to this book very well. The author is funny and gives lessons that i believe are great lessons for an older audience. I was bored for most of the book just because i didnt care about the topics. Even so, the writing style is good and i would reccomend it to someone l...more

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Dec 30, 2011 Camille Breckenridge rated it 4 of 5 stars

Great advice on making the most of life's lessons and keeping yourself in the moment==not wishing your life away.

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Apr 29, 2011 Susan marked it as to-read

I just found out that I won this book from Goodreads! Looking forward to it! Thanks!

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Jun 15, 2011 Donna rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-reads, own

"Not just a cancer memoir," I might have read those words in one of the blurbs before I requested this as a First Reads book, but they're actually true. And that's okay, because it was not what I was expecting; I got exactly what I expected, and I enjoyed it. It sounds strange to say one "enjoyed" a cancer/inspirational memoir, but the stories, or "Life Lessons" included in this are poignant, funny and wise, some of them all at the same time. Higley is to be commended for delving into this subje...more

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Mar 27, 2012 Mark Clement rated it 5 of 5 stars

Outstanding...life lessons for all ages!

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May 01, 2011 Hope marked it as to-read

Just won this on good reads, thanks!!!

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Feb 07, 2012 Debra rated it 4 of 5 stars

Great inspirational book.

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May 24, 2011 Suzanne rated it 5 of 5 stars

I loved this book & read it in one day, as it was hard to put down. It is inspirational and will encourage anyone, regardless of what challenges we face, to live in the present and look for life's lessons along the way. Highly recommend!

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Jul 24, 2011 Julie Harrison rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-read

Every parent should read this book. I read it in one sitting. Truly amazing. I absolutely loved how he chose a memory from his past and somehow compared it to something current. I also have a very large family history of cancer and reading his story made me think of my own family and it was so moving. I laughed and cried- sometimes in the same chapter! It really warms your heart to read this book. Like I said I am going to recommend it to all parents!

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Jun 15, 2011 Jenny rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: first-reads, non-fiction

This is a free book from the Goodreads First Reads giveaways.
This memoir reflects what happens when one man is confronted with a cancer diagnosis and what he learns during the summer of his recovery from surgery. Written in an engaging manner with some basic life truths (live for today, keep it simple, etc). The author is fortunate to have good family and friends in his support network. I really enjoyed the wholesome stories of his childhood.

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Oct 26, 2011 Mary Mahaney rated it 5 of 5 stars

A single father must face a battle with prostate cancer, which changes his entire perspective on life, reminding him of what matters most in this world. An inspirational story you won't soon forget! Read my full review here: http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.act...

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Jun 07, 2012 Shannon Baas rated it 5 of 5 stars

This was a great book. i loved how the author went back and forth from his childhood and earlier adult life and the present after he had been diagnosed with cancer, the surgery and recovery. i would definitely recommend it, especially for someone who is going through treatment for cancer.

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Dec 21, 2011 Jenna rated it 2 of 5 stars

I received this book as a giveaway on Goodreads. I didn't really connect with this author. The lessons he learned and how he relates them to his current situations were a bit of a stretch. I found it really hard to keep reading.

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JIM HIGLEY is the Bobblehead Dad—writer, speaker, life observer, and cancer warrior. He is the inaugural winner of the “World’s Greatest Dad” Challenge, a nationwide contest sponsored by Procter & Gamble Production’s Man of the House magazine.

Higley’s weekly fatherhood column, “Bobblehead Dad,” is published in the Chicago Tribune’s TribLocal. He is also a featured contributor for other nation...more

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