The Tibetan Book Of Living And Dying: A Spiritual Classic from One of the Foremost Interpreters of Tibetan Buddhism to the West
'What is it I hope for from this book? To inspire a quiet revolution in the whole way we look at death and care for the dying and the whole way we look at life, and care for the living'
Written by Buddhist meditation master and popular international speaker Soygal Rinpoche, this highly acclaimed book clarifies the majestic vision of life and death that underlies the Tibetan...more
Written by Buddhist meditation master and popular international speaker Soygal Rinpoche, this highly acclaimed book clarifies the majestic vision of life and death that underlies the Tibetan...more
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May 9th 2002
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(first published January 1st 1992)
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Sep 07, 2007
Charuga
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I have been reading this book since I got it in 2002. I read, put it down and pick it up again in 3-6 months. It puts into words the most difficult concepts, yet it is so deep in meanings that it takes awhile for me to digest. I started this book while in a job that I dealt with patients who were living yet quickly dying - it helped me deal with my questions of death. And with dealing with those questions I learned about life. I am now 3/4 done. It's ironic that when I pick it up to read, there...more
I'm on page 134.... reading slowly.
Every time I read a paragraph in this book, I can feel my pulse slow, & my heart open. I drop back into myself and remember why I'm here. I remember to be a human being & not just a human doing. This slowing has happened enough that now even just looking at the book across the room has a similar effect.
My mother loaned me her copy -- not sure she's gonna get it back soon as it is such a powerful reminder for me.
Every time I read a paragraph in this book, I can feel my pulse slow, & my heart open. I drop back into myself and remember why I'm here. I remember to be a human being & not just a human doing. This slowing has happened enough that now even just looking at the book across the room has a similar effect.
My mother loaned me her copy -- not sure she's gonna get it back soon as it is such a powerful reminder for me.
As a Westerner, I find Eastern philosophy at once simple and complex: the basic tenets of Buddhism and Eastern religion appear to be very simple (consideration for all living things, consciousness of all our actions and the knowledge that every action affects others, and a "forsaking" of the permanence of material things), but for those of us who've built our lives and measured our success by the acquisition of these very things, it's a hard sell.
The main message I've been getting from the book...more
The main message I've been getting from the book...more
Mar 25, 2008
Doreen
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I love this book with a passion. The Essential Phowa practice has sustained me through so much loss and I have practiced it countless times over many years.
The most recent time was last year for gorgeous A'ine who was only 17 and sent a butterfly as she continued on her journey.
I was so privileged to be able to practice this for my beloved mum while she was dying - the most profoundly spiritual experience which I treasure more than words can say.
The most poignant time was while miscarrying o...more
The most recent time was last year for gorgeous A'ine who was only 17 and sent a butterfly as she continued on her journey.
I was so privileged to be able to practice this for my beloved mum while she was dying - the most profoundly spiritual experience which I treasure more than words can say.
The most poignant time was while miscarrying o...more
Sigh, I'm not so keen on this whole belief in literal reincarnation business (even with the nuances he throws in).
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I eventually gave up on reading this book around chapter 17 or so. It just drove me batty, the luminous this and extraordinary that. Sorry if I'm just being close-minded. (I will say that chapter 11 of this book is actually really really good, with the exception of a couple of crystal-radiant paragraphs, it showed a genuine compassion for the dying, very touching, offering the dy...more
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I eventually gave up on reading this book around chapter 17 or so. It just drove me batty, the luminous this and extraordinary that. Sorry if I'm just being close-minded. (I will say that chapter 11 of this book is actually really really good, with the exception of a couple of crystal-radiant paragraphs, it showed a genuine compassion for the dying, very touching, offering the dy...more
The author, Sogyal Rinpoche, is a prolific Buddhist Teacher as well as the founder of many Buddhist Centers worldwide, including Lerab Ling in the South of France, which I think is his best-known retreat center.
Anyway, to quote wikipedia:
"In 1983, Rinpoche participated in the ‘New Dimensions in Death and Dying’ conference in California. This brought Rinpoche in touch with the work of Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Professor Kenneth Ring in the fields of hospice care and near-death research."
Conse...more
Anyway, to quote wikipedia:
"In 1983, Rinpoche participated in the ‘New Dimensions in Death and Dying’ conference in California. This brought Rinpoche in touch with the work of Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Professor Kenneth Ring in the fields of hospice care and near-death research."
Conse...more
Sogyal Rinpoche fled from the Chinese when they invaded Tibet, a modern tragedy of a magnitude not generally acknowledged in the West. He writes of the invasion, "Over 1 million people out of a population of 6 million have died at the hands of the Chinese; Tibet's vast forests, as indispensable as those of the Amazon to the ecology of the world, have been cut down; its wildlife has been almost totally massacred; its plateaus and rivers have been polluted with nuclear waste; the vast majority of...more
This is one of the most useful books that I’ve ever read. I re-read the book after my mother’s sudden death. It made me realize how impermanent life is, how we should seize the present to cherish what we have, to focus on essential things, and to serve others.
Sogyal made a compelling case in his urge for us to examine the three stages of dying, what we can do now to prepare for that process, and what we can do to help the dying and the decreased. He further points out the analogous process in l...more
Sogyal made a compelling case in his urge for us to examine the three stages of dying, what we can do now to prepare for that process, and what we can do to help the dying and the decreased. He further points out the analogous process in l...more
I read this book after my 11year old son was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I needed to find some spiritual form of understanding as to what was happening.
The first section of the book deals with how to live well while the second part of the book deals with how to die well. We all acknowledge that it is important to have guidelines as to how to live our life as a compassionate and caring being. Very rarely do we consider that it is equally important to know how to deal with death, be it our own...more
The first section of the book deals with how to live well while the second part of the book deals with how to die well. We all acknowledge that it is important to have guidelines as to how to live our life as a compassionate and caring being. Very rarely do we consider that it is equally important to know how to deal with death, be it our own...more
This book will change your life. This acclaimed spiritual masterpiece is widely regarded as one of the most complete and authoritative presentations of the Tibetan Buddhist teachings ever written. A manual for life and death and a magnificent source of sacred inspiration from the heart of the Tibetan tradition, The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying provides a lucid and inspiring introduction to the practice of meditation, to the nature of mind, to karma and rebirth, to compassionate love and care...more
The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying is a beautiful book, full of truth and wisdom. I have been reading it off and on for the past couple of years and finally finished it. What I really love about this book is that it puts the ancient teachings of Buddha in a modern context and addresses many alarming problems with modern society that are leading our world toward destruction. One of these problems is that Western society has dismissed spirituality in favor of a "see to believe" attitude based on...more
First, this is not a direct translation of the Bardo Thodol, commonly known in the West as the 'Tibetan Book of Living & Dying.' Rather it is a broad introduction to Tibetan Buddhist beliefs including the author's interpretation of the teachings contained in the Bardo Thodol. The validity of Sogyal's teachings are generally accepted within the Tibetan Buddhist community. Sogyal Rinpoche received teachings from an early age by highly respected teachers such as Jamyang Khyentse Chokyi Lodro, a...more
I read this book and took from it what I needed and left the weird stuff for others. What I took was significant and very helpful, and I keep this book around to re-read those passages. I believe anyone can find something in this book useful to them personally, but probably not all of it. Prepare to be frightened when you come across the writing that speaks to you, most likely at the start. If you are broken and as spiritually wounded as I was when I began this book, also prepare to be overwhelm...more
I first read the so-called ‘Tibetan Book of the Dead’, in the acclaimed 1927 Evans-Wentz translation, some twenty years ago and found it pretty heavy going. At the same time, I appreciated that it was packed with the wisdom of the ages and wished that it could have been more accessible, rather than reading like an early twentieth century German academic tract by a von-someone at Heidelberg University. So after stumbling upon Rinpoche’s book recently I was delighted to find that it was written in...more
A down-to-earth presentation of Tibetan Buddhist spiritual wisdom by an honored teacher who grew up in that tradition. The essence of his work is captured in this quote on page 11:
"In the Buddhist approach, life and death are seen as one whole, where death is the beginning of another chapter of life. Death is a mirror in which the entire meaning of life is reflected."
In chapters like, “Impermanence”, “Evolution, Karma and Rebirth”, and “Heart Advice on Helping the Dying”, the author imparts deep...more
"In the Buddhist approach, life and death are seen as one whole, where death is the beginning of another chapter of life. Death is a mirror in which the entire meaning of life is reflected."
In chapters like, “Impermanence”, “Evolution, Karma and Rebirth”, and “Heart Advice on Helping the Dying”, the author imparts deep...more
An extremely important (and relevant) carry-along during my half-year trip to North India, Nepal, and Bhutan. Rinpoche writes largely to a Western audience, so it doesn't surprise me that much of his content seems simplistic and applicable to the ordinary observer. Really, TBLD is just another book that explains the "intermediate" or "transitional" states of life and death, which are otherwise known as "bardos."
I don't mean to suggest that Rinpoche totally sold out (as some refugees have suggest...more
I don't mean to suggest that Rinpoche totally sold out (as some refugees have suggest...more
Scientists recently discovered what happens to the body, and in what order, as its dies. Their discovery replicated what Buddhism has said for millenia as outlined in this book.
However, The "Tibetan Book of Living and Dying' continues with what happens to 'you' next, after you're dead, and if for no other reason it makes this book a must read.
However, The "Tibetan Book of Living and Dying' continues with what happens to 'you' next, after you're dead, and if for no other reason it makes this book a must read.
Great book... / A lesson in humility that debunks the superficial choices I make all too often :). Soygal Rinpoche breaks down the process of living and dying in a more accessible and comprehensible way than anything else I have ever read. Rather than "15 minutes to enlightenment" he discusses the challenges of living through the lens of Tibetan Buddhism. His discussion of interconnectedness, the ephemeral nature of life, and the connections we feel to material, fleeting things is presented in a...more
when i read this book, everything slowed down. actually, everything stopped like i was in an eternal constant trance. i have been reading on spirituality and enlightenment. And while i thought that more or less i am reaching my spiritual goal, i happen to read this book in 0ct 2011. the day i read it(and i am still reading it), everything in my mind kind of stopped. i felt serene, calm, alive yet still. never in my last 15 years of reading on spirituality or enlightenment, i have had such profou...more
Nov 29, 2012
Ciprian
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The very first book I've ever read about Eastern spirituality, in my first year of college. I was absolutely shocked by the principles emanating from it, especially about the way Buddhist people treat death and the entire idea of "dettachment". I had initially bought it for a friend who had requested it on the spot while we were browsing through an improvised bookshop in the Romanian hippie sea resort of Vama Veche. It was his birthday and this was to be my gift for him, he said. So I bought it...more
How can a book that describes the cross-over from life to an existence beyond the curtain be anything but fascinating. This is not just a fanciful speculation about the afterlife but a detailed narrative of what you might expect if you die in a somewhat normal way. Yes, the accounts and stories are at times fantastic and unbelievable and non-reproducible. Still, the author gets his point across that death is a profound and important part of the life process. Probably the most intriguing assertio...more
I'm not a religious person, but I have always been pretty spiritual. One may argue that "spiritual" is to "religious" as "agnostic" is to "atheist", but I don't feel that's necessarily the case. I've always associated a "religious" person as someone who is very dogmatic and ritualistic, whereas a "spiritual" person is a little more open-minded. At any rate, I've always been a student of religion, rather than a follower.
I ran across this book while I was going through a little spiritual turmoil,...more
I ran across this book while I was going through a little spiritual turmoil,...more
Un libro excelente. El maestro y monje tibetano Sogyal Rimpoché, no enseña la cultura y la practica del budismo tibetano. No enseña que e lo que hay después de la muerte y como ayudar a lo moribundo a cruzar ese lugar también presenta una introducción clara y completa a la práctica de la meditación, como también el karma y a la reencarnación. No da idea cómo cuidar a nuestros seres que están a punto de morir con amor y ofrecerles ayuda espiritual. Me trajo curiosidad los «bardos», estados de con...more
This book was a gift to me from a very dear friend. All he said when he gave it to me was, "You need to read this". And he was right. Very interesting, engaging... and I have tons of inspirational and important lines highlighted for future reference. It took me forever to read, it would blow my mind and I would have to put it down for a few days to digest everything before beginning again. I found myself rereading a lot of the pages and sections that I loved. I would recommend this book to anyon...more
I read this book about 10 years ago and it blew me away. I made some significant changes in my life as a direct result and I believe these changes were a key part of my becoming the person I wanted to be. (I would have rated it 5 stars then.)
Fast forward a decade. In the past few years, I have endured some serious shizizzle and lost my way. I might dare say I stomped off my spiritual path in a big pout, getting even more lost in a deliberate passive-aggressive maneuver. I am not proud of this.
Fo...more
Fast forward a decade. In the past few years, I have endured some serious shizizzle and lost my way. I might dare say I stomped off my spiritual path in a big pout, getting even more lost in a deliberate passive-aggressive maneuver. I am not proud of this.
Fo...more
A wonderful primer on Tibetan Buddhism, this is a great book for anyone who is interested in learning more about this religion. Perfect as a layman's introduction to the concepts and systems of Tibetan Buddhism.
This book is also very useful for anyone working with the dying, or processing a loss themselves.
Sogyal Rinpoche is a wonderful teacher who clearly and succinctly explains even the most complex subjects. I also love this book because it introduced me to the teachings of Dilgo Khyentse Rin...more
This book is also very useful for anyone working with the dying, or processing a loss themselves.
Sogyal Rinpoche is a wonderful teacher who clearly and succinctly explains even the most complex subjects. I also love this book because it introduced me to the teachings of Dilgo Khyentse Rin...more
I have technically been reading this book for quite a while, and most likely will be for a while longer. It is the type of text that doesn't read like a typical story, but you read a section at a time, reflect on it and digest it before moving on to the next section.
I was raised in the Eastern Orthodox Church, but have never felt a connection to the religion and its teachings. That being said, I never pursued any other formal avenue in regards of practicing spirituality.
This year, with balan...more
I was raised in the Eastern Orthodox Church, but have never felt a connection to the religion and its teachings. That being said, I never pursued any other formal avenue in regards of practicing spirituality.
This year, with balan...more
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Sogyal Rinpoche was born in Tibet and raised by one of the most revered spiritual masters of this century, Jamyang Khyentse Chökyi Lodrö. With the Chinese occupation of Tibet, he went into exile with his master, who died in 1959 in Sikkim in the Himalayas. After university studies in Delhi and Cambridge, England, he acted as translator and aide to several leading Tibetan masters and began teaching...more
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“Perhaps the deepest reason why we are afraid of death is because we do not know who we are. We believe in a personal, unique, and separate identity — but if we dare to examine it, we find that this identity depends entirely on an endless collection of things to prop it up: our name, our "biography," our partners, family, home, job, friends, credit cards… It is on their fragile and transient support that we rely for our security. So when they are all taken away, will we have any idea of who we really are?
Without our familiar props, we are faced with just ourselves, a person we do not know, an unnerving stranger with whom we have been living all the time but we never really wanted to meet. Isn't that why we have tried to fill every moment of time with noise and activity, however boring or trivial, to ensure that we are never left in silence with this stranger on our own?”
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Without our familiar props, we are faced with just ourselves, a person we do not know, an unnerving stranger with whom we have been living all the time but we never really wanted to meet. Isn't that why we have tried to fill every moment of time with noise and activity, however boring or trivial, to ensure that we are never left in silence with this stranger on our own?”
“Above all, be at ease, be as natural and spacious as possible. Slip quietly out of the noose of your habitual anxious self, release all grasping, and relax into your true nature. Think of your ordinary emotional, thought-ridden self as a block of ice or a slab of butter left out in the sun. If you are feeling hard and cold, let this aggression melt away in the sunlight of your meditation. Let peace work on you and enable you to gather your scattered mind into the mindfulness of Calm Abiding, and awaken in you the awareness and insight of Clear Seeing. And you will find all your negativity disarmed, your aggression dissolved, and your confusion evaporating slowly like mist into the vast and stainless sky of your absolute nature.”
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