false 10412 19 For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. <P><P><I>He's afraid to get hurt again.<P>Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.<P>Maybe he's intimidated by me.<P>He just got out of a relationship.<P></i><P><P>Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. <P><P>The truth may be <I>He's just not that into you.</i><P><P>Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel.<P><P> <P><I>HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU</i> -- based on a popular episode of <I>Sex and the City</i> -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them <I>enough</i>, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.<P><P>Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mind-sets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you."<P><P><I>HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU</i> is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe <I>He's just not that into you.</i> And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.<P><P> 822184 2004 He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys total:5337|5:1246|4:1504|3:1564|2:716|1:307| 5337 18677 6861 1192 1 13 false false Thu Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007 Mon Dec 03 04:37:54 -0800 2007 Mon Dec 03 04:43:10 -0800 2007 more...]]> 3 10 false false Thu Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2006 Fri Jun 20 20:06:21 -0700 2008 Fri Jun 20 20:12:48 -0700 2008 more...]]> 5 5 false false Fri Apr 01 00:00:00 -0800 2005 Wed Jul 30 09:59:57 -0700 2008 Wed Jul 30 10:20:01 -0700 2008
It's a really fucking simple concept, and it's entirely encompassed in the title. In fact, I love how the title totally sounds like it's uber harsh. In reality, telling you that "he's not really that into you" is ab...more...]]> 5 4 false false Mon Nov 01 00:00:00 -0800 2004 Mon Mar 10 05:33:55 -0700 2008 Mon Mar 10 05:46:08 -0700 2008 more...]]> 5 2 false false Fri Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2004 Sun Feb 03 20:08:21 -0800 2008 Sun Feb 03 20:13:34 -0800 2008 LOVED this book and do consider it to be life altering for me (okay, to an extent...). I realize it's been trash talked times ten in the media since it first came out but I do think it's extremely underrated.

I read it as a first year grad student and remember al...more...]]> 3 3 false false Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008 Mon Jan 14 12:26:59 -0800 2008 Wed Feb 13 10:21:33 -0800 2008
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This book is empowering -...more...]]> 5 3 false false Wed Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2004 Mon Jun 25 10:05:56 -0700 2007 Mon Jun 25 15:59:01 -0700 2007 He's Just Not That Into You, because this book serves as a reminder to make sure you're being treated with the respect you deserve. After you read this book, you will save a lot ...more...]]> 3 1 false false Fri Dec 12 07:59:01 -0800 2008 Fri Dec 12 07:59:06 -0800 2008
So maybe my relationship with the book is like the relationships that are diagnosed in the bo...more...]]> 2 1 false false Thu Sep 04 11:27:24 -0700 2008 Thu Sep 04 11:28:57 -0700 2008
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A friend of mine gave it to me after I (unknowingly) gave her the advice, I just don't think he's that into you. Apparently, this common sense is something that requires a whole book (or series of books now), a Sex in the City episode ...more...]]> 1 2 false false Fri Dec 07 16:11:04 -0800 2007 Fri Dec 07 16:48:08 -0800 2007 more...]]> 5 1 false false Sun Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2006 Wed Feb 11 14:57:42 -0800 2009 Wed Feb 11 15:01:20 -0800 2009 5 more...]]> 5 1 false false Sat May 02 13:22:32 -0700 2009 Sat May 02 13:28:13 -0700 2009 more...]]> 5 1 false false Thu Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2005 Tue May 08 15:42:38 -0700 2007 Wed May 23 05:57:33 -0700 2007 more...]]> 4 0 false false Sun Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009 Sat Mar 14 11:54:56 -0700 2009 Sat Mar 14 12:02:21 -0700 2009 more...]]> 2 0 false false Fri Aug 15 00:00:00 -0700 2008 Mon Mar 02 21:49:15 -0800 2009 Mon Mar 02 22:38:49 -0800 2009 more...]]>