Men, Women, and Children
by
Chad Kultgen
The author of "The Average American Male" and "The Lie" returns with a shocking and salacious--yet surprisingly rich and subtle--new novel of the average American family.
In this, his most ambitious and surprising book yet, Kultgen explores the sexual pressures at work on two different generations navigating the same Internet landscape: junior high school students and their...more
In this, his most ambitious and surprising book yet, Kultgen explores the sexual pressures at work on two different generations navigating the same Internet landscape: junior high school students and their...more
Paperback, 320 pages
Published
June 21st 2011
by Harper Perennial
(first published 2011)
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I'm a huge fan of Chad Kultgen's novels. I happened across "The Lie" (Chad Kultgen's 2nd book) a year or two ago and devoured it. As soon as I finished "The Lie", I immediately picked up "The Average American Male"(his first book), which I finished in a day. I bought Men, Women and Children on the day it released, I was so excited to read it.
I was slightly disappointed. In his other two novels I really felt like we were building up to something. This novel had no real clear ending. N...more
I'm a huge fan of Chad Kultgen's novels. I happened across "The Lie" (Chad Kultgen's 2nd book) a year or two ago and devoured it. As soon as I finished "The Lie", I immediately picked up "The Average American Male"(his first book), which I finished in a day. I bought Men, Women and Children on the day it released, I was so excited to read it.
I was slightly disappointed. In his other two novels I really felt like we were building up to something. This novel had no real clear ending. N...more
I'm not quite finished with the book yet, but so far I have to say that it is a magnificent novel! I've been following Chad (and will continue to follow him) ever since stumbling upon The Lie in a bookstore. While The Lie focused more on a plot, Men, Women, and Children focuses more on the development of characters through a period of time. The way that the characters interact amongst themselves and with others is truly amazing. I'll admit that there were a lot of characters to keep track of, an...more
This book continues my love of Chad Kultgen as a writer. Soon as i begin his books i become immediately enraptured until i am finished. Then i become immediately sad that i finished so quick and now will have to wait until he writes a new one. With each new book he brings a new maturity and a nuanced view of the world. Though he tends to look more in the dark places.
His characters are treated the same way. His books usually start off shocking with the depiction of events, Language, issues and f...more
His characters are treated the same way. His books usually start off shocking with the depiction of events, Language, issues and f...more
I have a sort of love/hate thing going with Chad Kultgen's books. In "The Average American Male", it seemed like he worded everything for shock value and the biggest cringe factor he could get. But after polling some of my average American guy friends about some of the points in the book, most said, "Ya, that's pretty much right." "The Lie", Kultgen's second book centering the concept of the man/woman relationship dynamic was just as brutal to my tender heart, and polled, once again, as pretty a...more
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I always feel the need to go to confession after reading a Chad Kultgen novel. I could not put this book down!
This book follows the lives of a group of 13 year olds and their parents in a suburban town. I really enjoyed tapping into the thought processes of these teens as they dealt with issues like depression, losing one’s virginity, anorexia, dealing with divorce…the list goes on and on. I felt knowledgeable after reading this. I felt informed. But the process of learning is an uncomfortable...more
This book follows the lives of a group of 13 year olds and their parents in a suburban town. I really enjoyed tapping into the thought processes of these teens as they dealt with issues like depression, losing one’s virginity, anorexia, dealing with divorce…the list goes on and on. I felt knowledgeable after reading this. I felt informed. But the process of learning is an uncomfortable...more
Wow. This left me shocked and breathless, like all of Chad's work before it.
Men, Women, & Children is hardly as plain as its title suggests. This can't-put-it-down fast read is from the all-knowing omniscient and changing POV of many 8th graders and their parents as they navigate the fall semester together.
Kultgen writes with the same detachment that gives equal weight and insight into each of his character's personal dilemmas (sexless marriage, divorce, policing your child's internet, Worl...more
Men, Women, & Children is hardly as plain as its title suggests. This can't-put-it-down fast read is from the all-knowing omniscient and changing POV of many 8th graders and their parents as they navigate the fall semester together.
Kultgen writes with the same detachment that gives equal weight and insight into each of his character's personal dilemmas (sexless marriage, divorce, policing your child's internet, Worl...more
A loaner from a coworker. Started on my lunch break, finished after work. The characters were more developed in this book, and I feel like I got to know them instead of just their strange quirks. Initially, there were too many characters to keep track of, but some stopped having their own narrative sections, and as I got to know them, they were fairly easy to keep apart. Kultgen continued to use first and last names well into the novel though, as well as clarifying when people were related, so I...more
I bought this book yesterday and I'm already halfway finished with it. Every opportunity I get to read it, I do. It's a simple read, written in a very curt style that is to the point and descriptive without being overly wordy or too artsy. I think that style really captures the essence of the technology driven youth of today. Everything is condensed and to the point with them or shortened into an acronym and lacks formalities. This is shown in every aspect of their lives from their relationships...more
Once again, Chad Kultgen has left me once again to try and gather my thoughts after reading his most recent novel, "Men, Women and Children." I work at a bookstore and I am always leery of suggesting Kultgen. His outrageous, illicit, and downright pornographic nature of his books always gives me pause. On the other hand, Chad Kultgen taps into something that no other author that I have read has ever managed to do, place a mirror up to humanity's underside in such a nonchalant, matter of the fact...more
Chad Kultgen, I just had your miscarriage
Men Women & Children, the third novel from Chad Kultgen is beyond good, and worth every second you spend reading it.
For many years, I didn’t think it was possible to eclipse Fight Club. In unique ways Kultgen does just that with this new book. Relentless and seamless at once, MW&C reminds me of what John Cheever would have become if he’d lived another thirty years. Suburbia to Mr. Kultgen isn’t a dry and dull grind infused with scotch and soda, ta...more
Men Women & Children, the third novel from Chad Kultgen is beyond good, and worth every second you spend reading it.
For many years, I didn’t think it was possible to eclipse Fight Club. In unique ways Kultgen does just that with this new book. Relentless and seamless at once, MW&C reminds me of what John Cheever would have become if he’d lived another thirty years. Suburbia to Mr. Kultgen isn’t a dry and dull grind infused with scotch and soda, ta...more
A quick read. I enjoyed it but found the activities and conversations between 8th graders problematic. The plot and characters would have been more believable had they been 10th graders - there were simply too many themes and issues that are more accurate well into the onset of high school. I also felt that the ending was sudden and rushed - definitely no closure and the tying up of lose ends felt sloppy and unemotional making it difficult for me to care about the characters and feel satisfied w...more
Jul 25, 2011
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In Men, Women & Children, Chad Kultgen pulls no punches in his pointedly matter-of-fact exploration of human sexuality and its impact on relationships. His cast of characters is large, and the situations in which his characters find themselves cross the gamut from normal, healthy sexual expression to fetishes and beyond. Of even greater interest is the age range of his characters and the impact of social media and the Internet on fueling certain issues.
Men, Women & Children is not for t...more
Men, Women & Children is not for t...more
Kultgen's third and best novel in my opinion. Though a few stumbles abound with instances of weak dialogue and too detailed scenes of football games, Kultgen has shown his growth as a writer and at the same time maintained his characteristic tone. He lays bare the characters he presents with little judgement and bias to one side or the other simply, instead, telling it as he sees it. The novel can be dismissed as nihilistic but that would be doing a disservice to the work. Kultgen approaches his...more
I enjoy everything this author has written and this book is no different. I couldn't express in writing how excited I was to see this on the New Releases table at Barnes and Noble. I jumped into it right away and am about 3/4 of the way through. Kultgen is witty and writes the things I only think about but might refrain from saying out loud.He's definitely making his way into my favorite author list hands down. Comparable to The Lie and Average American Male in context and hilarity. This book br...more
Following the last junior high football season of a team of thirteen-year-old boys, their friends, their girlfriends and parents, this is superficially another tale of small-town sex, families, and coming-of age scenarios. Narratively, there's not much more to it than that. But if you've read either of Chad Kultgen's other two books (The Average American Male and The Lie), you'll know that he doesn't tend to break the rules of composition as much as take a dump on them. So, here is a novel in wh...more
I'd like to start by saying this book is nothing at all like anything I have ever read. It came suggested to me through an obscure recommendation. Now, having said that, "Men, Women and Children" is a perverse account of human sexuality based on the very open and honest struggles of a group of interconnected adults and their children. It is quite raunchy and twisted, dealing with everything from first-times to infidelity to fetishes. This novel was very real and personal, and I surpised myself b...more
Kultgen's novels have never been anything but quick flavor-of-the-moment reads that essentially mimic other, more relevant and distinguished authors like Bret Easton Ellis and Douglas Coupland in terms of social commentary and social satire.
This one doesn't lose the stigma of being a me-too title like his previous two but it manages, ever so slightly, to venture into fresher territory while also being essentially pornographic prose.
Yeah, it deals with sexual discovery, repression, experimentati...more
This one doesn't lose the stigma of being a me-too title like his previous two but it manages, ever so slightly, to venture into fresher territory while also being essentially pornographic prose.
Yeah, it deals with sexual discovery, repression, experimentati...more
Well, that certainly was a Chad Kultgen book.
However I am shocked that so few of the reviewers got the actual point of this book. Yes I suppose that it is quite the commentary on the coming-of-age for preteens in the age of internet and instant access to sexual content, as well as the lives of parents trying to learn and police a force with which they have no practical experience or understanding. Or whatever.
But what this book actually achieves is normalizing child pornography to the point whe...more
However I am shocked that so few of the reviewers got the actual point of this book. Yes I suppose that it is quite the commentary on the coming-of-age for preteens in the age of internet and instant access to sexual content, as well as the lives of parents trying to learn and police a force with which they have no practical experience or understanding. Or whatever.
But what this book actually achieves is normalizing child pornography to the point whe...more
I actually really liked this book a lot--it reminded me of Little Children in its focus on suburban families who are all in some way unhappy while living their ordinary lives--but this book has much more to say about the sexual aspects of all parties involved, of all ages. Paranoid parents in the age of the Internet, parents cheating on their spouses, kids ruining relationships and having their relationships ruined for them. A really interesting read that I got into. I'd like to read his other w...more
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If you took the plot of "American Beauty" and gave it to Bret Easton Ellis to write, you may have a small idea of what to expect with "Men, Women, & Children", Chad Kultgen's latest offering of literature. Before this, I had only read "The Average American Male", a book I picked up on a whim, possibly due to the use of Helvetica as the cover font and most likely for the reason of the very first chapter and sentence.
As I was reading through this book, there were a lot of different degrees of...more
As I was reading through this book, there were a lot of different degrees of...more
Not as good as The Lie, but still a great read. It focuses on four or five families in suburban america, and the crazy shit they do in secret from one another. One girl has a secret goth-fetish Myspace account, one dad is hiring hookers online and cheating on his wife (while she's doing the exact same thing), and another kid faces serial depression as he escapes into World of Warcraft.
The characters are great, even though some kinda bleed into one another, but the dialogue never flows generally...more
The characters are great, even though some kinda bleed into one another, but the dialogue never flows generally...more
I keep going back and forth between 4 and 5 stars. I wish they had halves! I couldn't put it down. I read it as quickly as I possibly could. It disturbed me, and spoke the truth. Uncannily, it was appropriate to what was going on in my life just before I received it.
I have a 14 year old daughter, who attended 8th grade last year. All the issues that plague the mind of an 8th grade girl are present in this book: Eating disorders, low self-esteem, peer pressure, acceptance, predators, social medi...more
I have a 14 year old daughter, who attended 8th grade last year. All the issues that plague the mind of an 8th grade girl are present in this book: Eating disorders, low self-esteem, peer pressure, acceptance, predators, social medi...more
Not sure how to review this. Parts of this remind me of growing up, and others really scared me now that I have a small boy of my own. Reminds me of that Docu/drama KIDS from the early 90s. Deals with human sexuality and growing up. Highly readable and at times borderline pornographic. Extremely well written and I ejoyed the hell out of it....but would have a hard time recommending it to ANYONE. You will understand why once you read a couple pages. Already ordered AVERAGE WHITE MALE by the same...more
A good and daring book.
Good study about human interactions and how people behave - as it's fiction he does go to the extreme but it's truthful. I found it good about the consequences of failing to talk/communicate with each other.
Some of the study is quite predictable but his narrative is about how and way rather than what happens.
So very interesting book about the way we all communicate and how the internet can affect us.
Good study about human interactions and how people behave - as it's fiction he does go to the extreme but it's truthful. I found it good about the consequences of failing to talk/communicate with each other.
Some of the study is quite predictable but his narrative is about how and way rather than what happens.
So very interesting book about the way we all communicate and how the internet can affect us.
I read "The Lie" by Chad Kultgen. It sort of twisted. This one is also sort of twisted. Focused on eighth graders experimenting relationshipwise and sexually, and on parents going through their own sexual struggles and experiments; I couldn't help but wonder how many communities these tales would be common in. I also wondered if any of this was taking place when I was in eighth grade and I somehow just didn't realize it.
This book definitely caught my attention. I felt like every character in this book was someone that I had known at one point or another and I was excited to see how things would develop...but then it just fizzled out. It seemed like he got to a certain point and decided it was time to end the book and so he did. Kind of like an M. Night Shymalan movie. Hence, I can only give it 3 stars. It was definitely on it's way to a solid 4.
This book is nothing like any books I have read before. It gives perspective on what really could be going on behind closed doors. The author reveals apsects of suburbia that are otherwise deemed taboo. It was different, and at some points vulgar and deeply disturbing. If detailed descriptions of unorthodox sexual encounters disturbs you, this may not be the book for you.
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After two months in his birthplace Spokane, WA Chad Kultgen spent the majority of his life in a suburb of Dallas, TX called Lewisville. After high school, he turned down a full ride baseball scholarship to Trinity University in San Antonio, TX to pursue writing. He moved to Los Angeles, CA where he joined the likes of George Lucas, Robert Zemekis, and Ron Howard as a graduate of the prestigious Sc...more
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“One night, Tim stumbled across a documentary called Manufacturing Consent. After viewing it, he found some writing online by its subject, Noam Chomsky, and as a result began to feel that there wasn't really a point to anything, that free will was an illusion, and that the things most people invested time and energy in were systems of control designed by those who sought to manipulate the general populace”
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