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Preview — Quiet by Susan Cain
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
The book that started the Quiet Revolution
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over working in teams. It is to introverts—Rosa Parks, Chopin, Dr. Seuss, Steve Wozniak—that we owe many of the great contributions to societ
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I can be alone in my car for a 1h drive and not want to have the radio or music on. On sundays I often join the walking club for a long 25km walk, but I prefer to do it alone (and oh, all the pity looks you get!). The idea of surprise parties makes me sick to my stomach, and any event where a thousand people are together is possibly even worse. I dislike small talk, but I probably hate even more how nervous I get when I have to do it.
I can feel sad for a brui...more
There were so many points of affirmation for me—things I intuitively knew. Things I’ve tried to share with others mostly to no avail. This book supplies all the dat...more
This book is certainly for you-or for the perplexed extrovert or "pseudo-extrovert" that might be confused by your supposedly mysterious ways. It's a sort of shield, a blockade, a set of reinforced walls that Cain feels it is n...more
I am, according to the battery of Myers-Briggs tests that Dr. Internet has administered to me (and that offer the same result no...more
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This is a bit different from what I typically read and review. I don't often read non-fiction, but when my mom got this out of the library and I read the inside flap, I knew I would have to give it a shot. It sounded like something I could relate to and possibly benefit from … and it was. As soon as I started it, I was totally engrossed. And as I made my way through the entire thing, I felt like I was learning more and more about myself....more
Susan Cain, former Wall Street lawyer and self-described introvert, investigates how introversion has become dangerously scorned in the current American "Culture of Personality." I had not fully realized how drastically our cultural values have shifted--and how much American society pushes us to conform--until reading Cain's book.
To prove her point, Cain visits American bastions of extroversion promotion, including Harvard Business School, Saddleba...more
This is a useful book for the introvert forced to be in the public eye.
By public eye I mean more than 1 or 2 people. I, as an introvert, gained a better understanding of why I am the way I am. Most introverts will find helpful tips and info on dealing with work and daily matters. Now if I could only have enough money to move away and live in seclusion. ;-)
Susan Cain does an excellent job of explaining the different strengths between introverts and extroverts, and the history of how America came to idealize extroverts. Yes, as a society we tend to value the gregarious go-getters, the loud talkers, the forceful presenters. But Cain's book reminds us that societies need introverts, too -- the thinkers, the listeners, the people who look befo...more
I'm very much an introvert. I try to avoid social functions as much as possible, but I do love meeting every so often with my dear friends one-on-one. If I do end up at a party, you can bet I'm the one keeping the corner warm. I am an avid reader, a knitter, a sometimes writer, a nerd, and an engineer. My idea of a perfect evening is one spent in the comfo...more
How did the...more
Quiet is a fascinating book about the prejudice that our society faces against introverts, and why it's unfounded, and how, as an introvert, you can overcome that, as well as just KNOW yourself better. I never really classified myself as such before, but reading this, I understand why, if I'm exhausted, all I want to be is alone, and how I'm extroverted only when I can control my environment and how that's a THING! If...more
And yes, please; a bit of Quiet around me would be most Welcome so that I could Hear my own Quietness & Inner Senses ;-)
It explained so many things about me, myself and I - in relation to where I stand in this very loud world that surrounds me everywhere.
So far so enchanting. But then, I scored 20/20 introvert on the quiz in the introduction, so I'm biased.
I can tell it's not going to be a perfect book, as it's easy to nitpick about the science and the objectivity of the author. But it's an important book. It's crucial that...more
But that doesn't mean I'm terrified of public speaking, or that I hate extroverts, or that I'm a delicate "orchid" (wtf) that needs kind, gentle encouragement lest I break down. And while periodically Cain would make a half-hearted attempt at showing how not all introverts are frail bunny rabbits and how not all extroverts are dumb bullies, yeah that's kinda what she was saying.
Not to mention...more
My semi-bitchy friend actually helped me define a big part of myself. Until then, I just thought...more
Cain confirms with data from various studies what I've observed time and again: In group/committee situations, those who s...more
We goodreaders' common interest in -- obsession with -- reading suggests that a disproportionate number of us are introverts. But less obviously, although goodreads is technically a social network, according to this book introverts apparently prefer socializing online to partying in real life and are more comfortable expressing themselves in writing than in verbal conversation. Therefore, many active social network participants are act...more
The validation starts early, on page 4: "Introverts living under the Extrovert Ideal are like women in...more
Susan Cain offers up an incredibly engaging, comprehensive look at introversion. She takes a multidisciplinary approach to the concept of introversion in a culture where we are often measured against an "Extrovert Ideal" - in the workplace, schools and social settings.
She offers workable, empowering solutions to int...more
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