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    <body><![CDATA[Very convicting in a good way.  A great book for anyone concerned with controlling your tongue from a Biblical persective.   ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Anybody interested in a self-improvement project that will keep you busy for the rest of your life? This book convicted me about the power of my words, both in the big things and the seemingly little ones. The section on the power of parents' words to their children has stuck with me since I read it...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42268142">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I admit - this book called me to repentance in a lot of ways. It was compelling, interesting, and very true (at least in my case!). I'll have to read it again, I think, later...]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This was a nice book.  Don't gossip!  Use words of love, gratitude, and caring.  A bit dated in its examples, but worth reading.  It's a reminder to be kindest to those who mean the most to you.  ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[One of the most important books I've read.]]></body>
    
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