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The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction

3.92  ·  Rating Details ·  533 Ratings  ·  51 Reviews
Arielle Ford, the woman who helped launch the careers of Deepak Chopra, Neale Donald Walsch, and Jack Canfield, shows readers how to take control of their romantic destiny in The Soulmate Secret. In this white magic counterpart to Neil Strauss’s Rules of the Game, Ford teaches you to use the laws of attraction to deliver your soulmate to your doorstep! It’s is a step-by-st ...more
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Published October 6th 2009 by HarperElixir (first published January 1st 2008)
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Oct 05, 2010 Monique rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites
I was on this like soul mate kick for the past three years of my life...I couldn't take it anymore...I wanted my soulmate to find me now, and I was angry because everyone else seemed to be finding their happy ever afters whether that be alone or married, and I kept coming up with zero...It was very frustrating.This book found me at the library one rainy day here in baltimore, md. And I ready in one sitting, plu, took motes and completed all of the exercises...that was almost a year ago now and m ...more
♥ Ibrahim ♥
It is as if she is reading what is on my mind and speaking it word for word! I will read this book over and over. I love her ideas and the way she writes. Yes, there is a soulmate and it is up to us to find him/ her, and all in perfect design and in divine law and order. It is another good book on how to apply the Law of attraction in getting the things you want and pray for. She has her lovely touches and I like the personal testimonies of people who got to experience firsthand what she is expl ...more
Hiba Al-Ramahi
Aug 06, 2014 Hiba Al-Ramahi rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
رح أحكي بالعربي .. عشان آخد راحتي بالتعبير :P
بديت أسمع الكتاب الصوتي ( The Soulmate Secret) بناءاً على توصية من صديقة إلي ، ما كنت متوقعة شو ممكن يكون محتواه ولا شو هالسر الخرافي إلّي ممكن يخلّيني ألاقي "رجل أحلامي"!
الكتاب عبارة عن تجربة الكاتبة الشخصية و تجارب ناس غيرها طبقوا الأسرار و التمارين المذكورة في الكتاب و خلّتهم بالنهاية يلاقوا الشريك المناسب إلّي عم بدوروا عليه من زمان أو بالأحرى their soul mates

تلخيصاً لبعض أفكار الكتاب ..

لازم تآمن بدايةً إنه مش بس إنت عم بتدوّر على "شقيق روحك" ، إ
Aug 21, 2014 Vira rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
First of all - this is the book for those who believe in soul mates and destiny and really wants to find The One. Honestly, I am kinda skeptical towards the exercises she suggests, but her idea is just wonderful. It isn't said that if you do everything that is in the book, you will find your one true love, no. It just makes you be sure that you obviously will find the best partner for you, if you have enough patience. The main idea in the book is that IF YOU WANT TO FIND A PERFECT MAN IN ALL SEN ...more
The writer Arielle Ford shares her story and other ppl stories about how they find their soulmates by using the law of attraction.The process is simple which follows three steps :ask,Believe and receive.first,u have to make a list of all the qualities u would like to be in ur soulmate and that's the step of asking the universe of what u really want then u have to believe that u will meet ur soulmate someday ,somehow but the hardest part is letting go of how and when ,Just live ur life and enjoy ...more
Lisa P.
Dec 29, 2013 Lisa P. rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I read this book and enjoyed it. I did the recommended affirmations and also created the Love Mandala referenced inside. I returned the book to the library thinking it was a decent read and originally gave it 3 stars....4 months after creating the mandala, a small "vision board" area, and posting affirmations around the mandala on my dresser mirror, someone who fit my exact desires appeared in my life! That was September 2012. He now lives with me and we are celebrating a year of growth, happine ...more
There were some good tips at the beginning of this book. I believe in the Law of Attraction and this book goes into that area. The author gave examples of internal dialogue that we may be sending out to the Universe that has caused confusion or stoppage. Sending mixed signals is clearly covered and a few neat solutions are presented to include creating a visual "mapping" of what you are looking for. Lay it out all there. Sort through your thoughts. Are you ready for a relationship? This and othe ...more
ChaChanna Simpson
Just finished this book and it was okay. I do like the thought that the one is out there looking for me as I am looking to him. It also gave me a different way to think of the qualities I am looking of in my life partner. But this book seems to come from the idea that the reader doesn't like himself or herself and waiting for "the one" to complete them. So, if you fit that description this book is perfect for you as she gives exercises and tips on how to fall in love with yourself first before y ...more
Tori Montes
This is a good book I think for romance readers. I seemed a little whooey for me in areas. Therefore my rating is just for me what value I got from the book. Having read many self help book from many writers Arielle Ford represents I do respect her. That said, I do believe that you need to love yourself because if you don't why should anyone else but all this soulmate stuff I'm not so sure of. The list brown hair blue eyes etc... seems to over the top. I personally say affirmations and love myse ...more
Aug 01, 2013 Lisa rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I loved this book! It had some very great exercises to do that made you feel like you were making a difference. I am a firm believer in the Law of Attraction and this book has helped me further into believing. Fantastic read, thank you very much Arielle Ford. You're an inspiration to us all :0)
Feb 17, 2015 Tujan rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
We would like to think that we are really in charge of our lives and we can create out of it anything we want. This makes us feel powerful instead of helpless, which is great and the concept itself is so true... but still there is a divine part of life that we can never figure out. I read the book many years ago and thought If I follow it perfectly I would be with my soulmate in six months. LOL, how naive I was, it doesn't work this way.
I am less of a sucker to LOA books than I was before, but s
Apr 26, 2011 Holly rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
The best part of the books is reading about how people met. I'm a big sucker for real life love stories!
"A Love Letter from God" is the redeeming chapter of this book.
Jan 25, 2016 Clarice rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-in-2016
So I'm walking into the library today and I'm literally thinking, "SELF, I don't know how much longer I can even handle this doing EVERYTHING in my life all by myself thing." Then out pops this little book in the book sale. Synchronicity. Serendipity. I'll take it.

UPDATE: I'd almost give this book a 5 stars if the author wouldn't have coined her own phrase "feelingizations". An editor should have told her just DON'T. But it's her book, her choice. It set me on the right path at the right time i
Srta. Petruski
Apr 07, 2016 Srta. Petruski rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
El libro habla sobre la Ley de la atracción enfocado a la busqueda de la pareja perfecta. Nos enseña como superar las relaciones pasadas, a perdonarnos a nosotros mismos por nuestros errores, a tener una actitud abierta ante las posibilidades que nos ofrezca la vida, aprovechar de las cosas buenas que ya tenemos mientras se "espera" la llegada de esa persona perfecta para nosotros. No sé si la Ley de la atracción funciona, pero creo que las enseñanzas de este libro son psicológicamente muy útile ...more
Sep 06, 2015 Fleur rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I listened to the audio book and was able to take away quite a bit. Her exercises help you see things you might have known but was perhaps overlooking; and they're fun, like creating a treasure map. I gained a positive attitude on relationships and saw that I fell into a lot of the pitfalls/roadblocks preventing us from putting out those positive vibrations into the world to attract The One. I also learned to accept that I might never find Mr. Right, but that's ok as long as I'm happy with me.
It was good to help with principles of vision for your life. But if you are a Christian, these are some basic guide lines you probably already practice in your faith. I think it's great that there are some other alternatives explored, but it still left me a bit confused as to how to manifest love. There were plenty of stories for encouragement, but they all were suggested that you just have to be open to whatever because you don't know how or when you'll receive it. It says get out more and live ...more
Kim Olver
Jul 30, 2010 Kim Olver rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I am so pleased to say I interviewed Arielle Ford for my book. She greatly added to the beginning part of the book on what to do to prepare for the relationship of your dreams.

In The Soulmate Secret, Ms. Ford discusses how to bring the person you want into your life by engaging the Law of Attraction. The way it works is that the Universe will bring you those things upon which you focus your attention.

If you focus on why you can't find a good man or woman, you will continue to have difficulty bec
Jun 10, 2014 Maria rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Excellent Feng Shui, Smudging, Bring + Energy into your space, clearing space.Top 10 qualities I want in my soulmate. If my soulmate were to observe me right now, I'm proud of the qualities I exhibit. Always a work in progress, yet further today than I was yesterday. Meditation, yet again, plays a pivotal role.
Elizabeth Webb
Sep 02, 2016 Elizabeth Webb rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Loved it. As I do all books having to do with love, soul mates, and the law of attraction. I like the writing activities and they really helped me a lot. Of course this for people who actually believe in soulmates so if you don't this isnt for you. Very good tips in here and different ways of looking at things. Keep an open mind. :)
Huma Rashid
I dont' really know why I listened to this audiobook. :|

I find the whole manifesting thing kind of hokey, and I'm amazed that people believe in it the way they do, but this book is still filled with adorable stories of people finding their partners, and, I don't know, I'm such a sap that I find that sort of thing just heartwarming.

It was a pleasant enough way to spend a few hours while driving around between three different courthouses, which is literally all I did the day I listened to it. Hah.
Feb 15, 2012 Jen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
What a great piece of work. So many wonderful tools are provided to create a space for your perfect soulmate. I recommend this to anyone who is ready to take the needed steps to open up a space for that person you'd like to share your life with, one day at a time.... It's all about removing the baggage, replacing it with gems that are already within yourself... and just need some dusting off and moving forward in a new mindset. The key to it all is knowing it will take work and effort and it wil ...more
Feb 22, 2014 Taryn rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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I really loved the stories of real people that applied the law of attraction to find their significant other. It was quite interesting.
A good take on how to use the Law of Attraction to attract your true love. Some of the tips were really helpful, some things (like in order to be loved you first need to love yourself) were ages old truths.

The thing that disturbed me most was the feeling of being influenced to 'buy this stuff'. Suppose it's my own problem, I've not grown to such heights as needed to be truly spiritual and the master of secret power.


I'm not saying it it's all wrong, completely the opposite. Just, something
Swalf Mozah
Sep 21, 2016 Swalf Mozah rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Jan 26, 2012 Luminea rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: self-help
I've been reading a lot about twin souls/twin flamess in the last year. While Arielle uses the word "soulmate", in essence she is speaking about the same thing. Her meditations and exercises are both practical and inspiring. I love how she encourages you to fall in love with yourself, let go of past relationships and old wounds that may be blocking you, become your dream partner, and use the law of attraction to bring your beloved into your life. I intend to reread this book and use the meditati ...more
Beatie Turned
Feb 07, 2015 Beatie Turned rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
A piece of twaddle I read because a woman I was dating thought it was fantastic. I really wish I'd gotten the message.
Brigitte Bell
Mar 22, 2013 Brigitte Bell rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This beautiful book is one that leaves you feeling filled with hope, inspiration, and joyful anticipation at the prospect of meeting the love of your life. Ford graciously provides the tools and methods needed to help let go of the past, look foward to the future with excitement, and prepare to meet the person of your dreams by living "as if." Filled with heart-warming testimonies, fun and useful action steps, and words of healing, this book is definitely a must-read for anyone desiring to culti ...more
And we have a winner! I give it the first place among the most boring and useless books I have had the misfortune of reading this year. People, be smart, and don't waste your money or time on it. You won't learn nothing new or useful from this 'bestseller'. If you want, I can summarize this book's content for you in one sentence: think happy thoughts, wish for happiness and you'll be happy. Fascinating.
Sharon Martinez
Jul 28, 2014 Sharon Martinez rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
The power of positive thinking and patience.
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Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is one of the founding partners of the Spiritual Cinema Circle, a DVD club dedicated to providing movies about love and compassion. She is the author of seven books, including the Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Soul series and her newest book, The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your L ...more
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