Delusions of Gender: How Our Minds, Society, and Neurosexism Create Difference

Delusions of Gender: How Our Minds, Society, and Neurosexism Create Difference

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A vehement dismantling of the latest pseudo-scientific claims about the differences between the sexes.

Sex-based discrimination is supposedly a relic of the distant past. Yet popular books, magazines, and even scientific articles increasingly defend continuing inequalities between the sexes by calling on immutable biological differences between the male and the female brai...more
Paperback, 338 pages
Published August 8th 2011 by W. W. Norton & Company (first published August 30th 2010)

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Trevor
Let’s say you have read a couple of books on the ‘science’ that ‘explains’ the differences between the sexes. So, just what are you likely to have been told? Well, one thing would be that men have brains that are built to be more logical and mathematical than women’s brains (this is due to men’s better spatial rotational abilities that are a consequence of right brain localisation) and that this helps to explain why men end up in most of the high status jobs like Engineering or Science, just as...more
Scribble Orca
Nov 27, 2012 Scribble Orca added it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Scribble by: Trevor
How gratifying to find authors who know their stuff, have the necessary tools to analyse and critique, and who take the time to pick holes in the commercial follies of these pseudo-scientific wanna-be-never-could-so-better twist-everything-to-please-myself-and-make-a-fast-fbuck-simultaneously authors.

Should dovetail quite nicely with Sex at Dusk: Lifting the Shiny Wrapping from Sex at Dawn.
Kaethe
Let me boil the book down for the busy reader: whenever someone* chooses to ignore all the documented evidence of discrimination in favor of just-so stories about biology, in order to keep right on discriminating, you can take their evidence as having all the validity of the presenter's good intentions to end discrimination.

Sorry, that was a long and awkward summation. In justice to the book, I'd prefer to be pithy, funny, and understandable. Fine has tackled an immense and largely thankless tas...more
Daniel Casey
turns out vast amounts of psychology is psuedo-science...who knew? everyone...everyone knew...
Matty
Fine assesses the wealth of pseudoscience that people have used to prop up the idea that there are large scale neurological differences between men and women. She is very careful to cite her sources, and presents ample her opposition charitably before ripping them competently to shreds. Filled with fascinating scientific tidbits that challenge pop-psychology and neurology that we've probably all heard and absorbed, eg. the wide held idea that men and women have drastically different amounts of g...more
Sasha Hayden
I didn't even finish the whole book. I was really excited for it, to be honest. I think it was too hyped up by those recommending it that it ended up being disappointing.

My main issue with the book is that Fine doesn't seem to understand any of the science that goes into the researches. She may be well educated in the field of psychology, but I would've appreciated it more if I saw that she did some extensive research on fields that she isn't familiar with. Or at least make it a collaboration w...more
Marta
A spirited debunking of the perennial claims that women are different (and usually, it so happens that this difference is in truth inferiority) from men because SCIENCE. It is both amusing and infuriating to read how sexist scientists and journalists try angle after angle, and when one is debunked (say, no, brain size does not actually matter), they find another, even more dubious claim.

This is not a book without faults. Firstly, the author veers to the verbose side, and secondly, the book pays...more
Sarah
I decided to take a break from being girlishly bad at math and reading people's minds with my lady empathizing skills to read this book, and I sure am glad I did. Because it is hilarious. And fascinating. Cordelia Fine goes through all the old lines that I'm sure you've heard a thousand times (I know I have): that men's brains are just better at building stuff and making money while women are just natural nurturers, they just want to nurture the shit out of everything, because FEELINGS. Anyways,...more
Truehobbit
Easily one of the most entertaining non-fiction books I've ever read.
With scathing wit that makes the book often laughing-out-loud funny, psychologist Cordelia Fine debunks the currently fashionable beliefs that traditional differences between the sexes are based on differences in male and female brains.

I have to admit that I had heard those claims she debunks, too, and believed them. Hey, if it shows in modern machinery, it must be true, right? Who am I to doubt findings of scientific measureme...more
Jenny Schwartz
Nearly 20 years ago I studied sociology at a feminist, Marxist university. I’m pretty much disposed to accept the argument that culture heavily influences behaviour, i.e. I’m on the nurture side of the nature versus nurture debate. So I thought reading “Delusions of Gender” would simply be a matter of nodding as new data supported that view.
Oh boy (pun intended!) was I deluded.

Well-researched, well-argued, wittily written, Cordelia Fine hits hard at the wide spread (and I’d argue, lazy) assumpti...more
Catherine Siemann
Jan 08, 2012 Catherine Siemann rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: everyone, and especially new parents
A surprisingly quick read. Fine looks at gender essentialism and at the biases of studies and media reporting, and suggests that we've been too quick to throw up our hands and say, "but it's biological!" If little girls have only been wearing pink for fifty years, then clearly that can't be a hard-wired preference.

As a woman who preferred baby blue to pink for my childhood frilly dresses, liked to play with my brother's trucks and robots as well as my own stuffed animals (dolls are creepy and as...more
Alex Templeton
This is one of those books that has the potential to completely change your thinking on a particular subject: in this case, the idea that there are brain, and therefore inherent behavioral, differences in girls and boys. Fine presents a significant amount of damning evidence to the contrary, suggesting the power social conditioning to operate even when we are not aware of it. I found fascinating, for example, the studies Fine cites in the early chapters that suggest that once someone is primed t...more
Cara Pulley
We like to believe that sexism is on the decline, but is it really? This author doesn't think so and after reading her book, I'm convinced.

She says that gender distinctions continue to exist and that they start from our very beginnings - pink is for girls, blue is for boys. Gender comes to define us and these distinctions shape our abilities and interests. Certain skills are identified as male or female: Men are rational and brave; and Women are empathetic and nurturing. These assumed traits the...more
Robin
Cordelia Fine attempts to refute the popular idea that men and women have an innate neurological difference which results in different brains. I read this book after "The Essential Difference" by Simon Baron-Cohen. I recommend reading them in that order because Fine's book refutes many of the points made in Baron-Cohen's.

Fine makes a good case that many of the differences we see in gender could readily be traced back to cultural or sociological phenomena, and that it is too early to declare tha...more
Alex
It can be incredibly frustrating to argue against someone who is convinced by the idea of preformed gender roles in society because they feel that "scientists have proven that male/female brains are different" and that to think otherwise somehow flies in the face of common sesne. Gender roles in society are supposedly natural and pre-ordained and we should learn to like them and love them.

It's so easy to believe in the myth and Cordelia Fine does an excellent job of outlining why this is a myth...more
Catherine
It's common for people to resort to biological determinism when they look at the choices small children make in terms of colors, books, clothes, and toys. "We tried to raise him/her gender neutral!' goes the cry, 'but look! It really must be biological.'

It's not, as Fine deftly points out. From the moment the pink or blue hat is put on our head in the maternity ward, and the pink or blue card stuck in the hospital room door to announce the arrival of Baby Girl or Boy, our world sends us messages...more
Nancy
READ IT.

Cordelia Fine's examination of the many popular books and research studies which purport to prove that the male and female brains might as well belong to different species is simply brilliant. I gobbled this non-fiction up like it was a light lunch after a hard day's manual labor. Every page was packed with jaw-dropping information - horrifying methodological flaws, research which argues two diametrically opposed concepts, and outright deception, all designed to prove that men and women...more
Susan
Fine has collected all the psychological and neurocientific research that's been done so far on men's vs women's brains, and she talks through it all, pointing out assumptions, sloppy reasoning, self-fulfilling prophecies, and even a few cases of inaccurate claims. She explains clearly how such things as gender salience and stereotype threat can distort the results obtained in even very careful experiments. And she even addresses the case of parents who say "but I gave my daughter a truck, and s...more
Laurie
All those studies that say that women are bad at math and men are bad at relationships because their brains are hardwired that way can be very discouraging, and there are a LOT of those studies. But Cordelia Fine has looked into those studies and found flaws in them. Add into that a large number of studies that show how easy it is to jigger people’s minds into doing better or worse at tasks depending on how they are psychologically primed before hand and we can see where the author is coming fro...more
Nathan
There's a lot of bollocks claimed about "innate mental differences" between men and women, which Cordelia Fine does a good job of breaking down. She is sharp and acerbic, sarcastic and yet scientifically precise, in her demolition of the claims of differences. I can understand how, if you've been fighting the good fight all your life, saying that "girls are better with people, boys are better at programming" is a social construct not a biological one, then this book is something you clap and che...more
David
This is not what I'd call a "popular science" book -- it's aimed at an intellectual audience with some understanding of science and a willingness to deal with academic language. That makes it less accessible than a lot of the talk show-fodder books it's debunking, like all those ridiculous "Why Men Are Insensitive Horndogs Who Suck at Housework (Surprise! It's Biology!) and Women Are Born Loving Ponies and High Heels" books. Fine takes on pretty much the entire field of neuroscience, or rather,...more
Ashleigh
Gender studies have always interested me, and I was delighted to have the privilege to read an intelligent and eye opening book that looked at the subject of gender through neutral eyes. Though some call Delusions of Gender a feminist book, I disagree. I think it is an informative book that takes both female and male perspectives into account without judging either sex. Fine's book is full of research and fascinating studies and through these she debunks popular myths that keep women on the back...more
Aurochz
I have been thinking about the topic contained in this book a lot lately. I have roughly asked friends, mostly male ones at that, what they think of the topic. A lot of them dismissed this sort of thing as environmental egalitarianism. While I agree that books of this nature and feminists in some extreme regards dismiss science and biological differences in favor of ideology, I also believe that this book in particular tries to avoid such measures.

The main point in this book is to point out that...more
aimee
Gender studies have never been my thing. Not even a a little bit.

However, a recent review of Delusions of Gender inspired me to acquire and read it: an experience which certainly had an effect.

The book, in essence, calls out (and calls bullshit on) the popular neuroscience work and writings of people who claim that gender behavioural differences are due to inherent differences in brain structure.

While the book's message is a single, and clear, one hammered home repeatedly, I nonetheless enjoyed...more
Fergus Ray murray
Delusions of Gender, by Cordelia Fine, is an extended critique of efforts to scientifically study differences between the sexes, and the efforts of many writers to apply alleged science in their writings about such differences. The book is rich in technical detail, which might bog down some readers, but most of those details are fascinating. Fine is a lucid and entertaining writer, especially in her more acerbic moments - of which there are plenty here. She finds a lot of shoddy science and sham...more
Leanne
I love the author's snarky sense of humour as she completely demolishes the claims of the neurosexist writers who have convinced the popular media that gender inequality is the necessary result of biological differences between the sexes. I really appreciate her thorough exposé of the misinformation peddled by those who want to see the sexes trapped in rigidly defined gender roles. I am actually quite relieved to learn that there is no real evidence to show that women are more emotional and nurt...more
Duzzlebrarian
A great debunking of all those awful 'evo-devo' books that claim that the social inferiority of females is all our own fault, because we're born that way and anyway secretly we like it, and if you don't then there's something wrong with you. If you've ever read any of those books, and walked away grouchy feeling as if you've been both pathologised and patronised, but have been unable to debunk them because where do you get the data to throw against all those studies? - then this is the book for...more
Alison Dellit
This is the fourth book I've read in roughly seven months dealing with the debate around the neuroscience of gender, and it feels most like the outlier. I found myself wishing that Fine hadn't felt constrained to write as part of this broader debate, as a stand alone book on the topic of how we live up to our own sexist assumptions would be fascinating.

I'll say at the outset that I don't think the book really lives up to the title - the book doesn't ever really prove how differences are created...more
Nicole Ysabet
This book was a cogent, readable rebuttal to all the pop-psychology, pseudoscientific nonsense published about how alleged differences between men and women make men thuggish morons who can't wash a dish and women lightheaded bimbos incapable of understanding math. It made me want to do a dance of joy. Also, when talking about neuroimaging experiments which supposedly prove these "hardwired" differences, Cordelia Fine wrote this paragraph:

[...] When looking for changes in blood flow between two...more
Sien R.
Delusions of Gender is a counterargument to the ever-popular "gendered brain" theory which has gained more and more momentum in the last decade. As someone who's studied Neuroscience in my undergrad, I felt that Fine's discussion of neurosexism as well as her enumeration and subsequent deconstruction of the common gendered brain arguments were definitively well-researched and convincing.

I would say, however, that conversations in the book regarding race, sexual orientation, and/or non-tradition...more
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“In the statistical gargon used in psychology, p refers to the probability that the difference you see between two groups (of introverts and extroverts, say, or males and females) could have occurred by chance. As a general rule, psychologists report a difference between two groups as 'significant' if the probability that it could have occurred by chance is 1 in 20, or less. The possibility of getting significant results by chance is a problem in any area of research, but it's particularly acute for sex differences research. Supppose, for example, you're a neuroscientist interested in what parts of the brain are involved in mind reading. You get fifteen participants into a scanner and ask them to guess the emotion of people in photographs. Since you have both males and females in your group, you rin a quick check to ensure that the two groups' brains respond in the same way. They do. What do you do next? Most likely, you publish your results without mentioning gender at all in your report (except to note the number of male and female participants). What you don't do is publish your findings with the title "No Sex Differences in Neural Circuitry Involved in Understanding Others' Minds." This is perfectly reasonable. After all, you weren't looking for gender difference and there were only small numbers of each sex in your study. But remember that even if males and females, overall, respond the same way on a task, five percent of studies investigating this question will throw up a "significant" difference between the sexes by chance. As Hines has explained, sex is "easily assessed, routinely evaluated, and not always reported. Because it is more interesting to find a difference than to find no difference, the 19 failures to observe a difference between men and women go unreported, whereas the 1 in 20 finding of a difference is likely to be published." This contributes to the so-called file-drawer phenomenon, whereby studies that do find sex differences get published, but those that don't languish unpublished and unseen in a researcher's file drawer.” 7 people liked it
“The tape measures and weighing scales of the Victorian brain scientists have been supplanted by powerful neuroimaging technologies, but there is still a lesson to be learned from historical examples such as these. State-of-the-art brain scanners offer us unprecedented information about the structure and working of the brain. But don't forget that, once, wrapping a tape measure around the head was considered modern and sophisticated, and it's important not to fall into the same old traps. As we'll see in later chapters, although certain popular commentators make it seem effortlessly easy, the sheer complexity of the brain makes interpreting and understanding the meaning of any sex differences we find in the brain a very difficult task. But the first, and perhaps surprising, issue in sex differences research is that of knowing which differences are real and which, like the intially promising cephalic index, are flukes or spurious.” 1 person liked it
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