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Mothers and Daughters

3.37 of 5 stars 3.37  ·  rating details  ·  385 ratings  ·  103 reviews
A rich and luminous novel about three generations of women in one family: the love they share, the dreams they refuse to surrender, and the secrets they hold

Samantha is lost in the joys of new motherhood—the softness of her eight-month-old daughter's skin, the lovely weight of her child in her arms—but in trading her artistic dreams to care for her child, Sam worries she's...more
Hardcover, 272 pages
Published March 29th 2011 by Henry Holt and Co. (first published March 17th 2011)
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Tiffany
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Edan
This book--about the lives of three generations of women--was such a smooth, lovely read. At first I worried it was a bit too easy, a bit too smooth, but as it went on there were passages that really made me pause to think, to revel in the beauty of the prose and the cleverness of its intertwining tales. I liked reading about motherhood and what's passed down from mother to daughter. This was a book I kept reading, especially when I should have been writing or washing dishes or paying attention...more
Luanne Ollivier
Mothers & Daughters by Rae Meadows is the story of three women.

Sam is a new mother who is having a hard time adjusting to life with a daughter of her own. She is afraid to leave Ella with anyone else and has been unable to get back to her career as a potter after nearly a year. Her relationship with her husband has changed as well..." Since the baby, it seemed her feelings toward him required moment-to moment readjustment."

Sam's mother Iris died just before Ella was born. A box containing m...more
Danielle Mellott
I got this book from Early Reviewers on librarything.com. I wanted to like this. I really, really, really did. I did not, however.

Very few books I read get a 2 star rating. I'm relatively easy on most books and give away my 4 and 5 start ratings lavishly. I was originally going to give it a 2.5 stars because I did like SOME of it, while I didn't care for other parts of it- so a 2.5 would have been comfortably right down the middle of love and hate. But I realized something that I can't forgive....more
Jennie
I believe I saw this book reviewed on a few book blogs one day so I added it to my hold list at the library. I had almost forgotten about it when I got the email telling me it was waiting for me to pick up but after reading the blurb on the inside flap I remembered how good it sounded. I wish it had lived up to my expectations but it fell a little short.

I enjoyed the premise, especially being a new mother (well, she’s almost two but every day feels so new to me) I had felt many of the same insec...more
Staci
First thoughts after finishing this book: You think because you're family that you know everything about each other, but the truth is you really don't.

What I liked about the book:

The characters and how the author gave each one their own voice and the chance to tell their story. I loved how it all started with a box that contained items from a loved ones past.
The mother/daughter relationship. We are strange creatures aren't we? At times we are each other's best friends and other times could find
...more
Lynn
This book is richly imagined and emotionally conveyed. I was impressed by the depth of the descriptions of different times & places. I liked the interwoven narratives and the different perspectives conveyed by this novel. I could relate to a lot of the feelings of the character Samantha as she tried to understand her new identity as a mother. I read this book in one day. The stories are very compelling.
Quilter402
The story was interesting, but could have been much better had it been fleshed out more. Also the style was confusing. The writer was writing as three different people. This in itself is quite interesting. However, within each person's story the time/place jumped around so much from past to present without warning. Then it was back and forth between characters and their new storyline could be present or in the past.

The characters were interesting, but the story could have been told much better....more
beachbooks
Touching story spanning three generations. I enjoyed it.
Angela
If I were to base my enjoyment of this book simply on the publisher's description I would have been sorely disappointed. The novel that I read bears little resemblance to the blurb on the back cover. The back cover states "When a box of Iris's belongings arrives on Sam's doorstep, she discovers things about her mother she never knew -- or could even guess. But she is puzzled by much of what she finds. She learns that Violet, the woman she knows as her grandmother, left New York City as an eleven...more
Alisha Marie
While reading Mothers and Daughters, I found it a bit hard to relate to. Not to say I didn't like it because I did like it quite a bit, but this book focuses heavily on two of the three main characters feelings as a mother. Now, I'm in my early twenties and parenthood is nowhere near at the forefront of my mind during this time. So, while I thought those passages were intriguing, I didn't relate to them at all. Again, I mention that even though I didn't necessarily relate to Sam and Iris' storyl...more
Laurel-Rain
A story of three generations of women, bound by the love they share, the dreams they refuse to surrender, and the secrets they held, "Mothers and Daughters: A Novel" reveals those accidental moments in life. How taking one path over another can yield such different outcomes, and how looking back with regret is an exercise in futility.

Violet, Iris, and Samantha are the women in this illuminating novel, and we meet each of them in the chapters that tell their stories.

Violet's early life on the str...more
Eugenia Kim
Typically I won’t read the jacket blurbs until I’ve finished reading the book, and so while I had definite expectations of Rae Meadows’ novel, Mothers & Daughters, I had no idea—beyond the title and a friend’s recommendation—about what to expect. There was lots to love right away with this writing: the initial setting in Madison, Wisconsin (where my husband went to college), a common but uniquely described scene of a mother’s first time leaving her baby with a sitter, and foremost, Meadows’...more
Cindy Hudson
Mothers and Daughters by Rae Meadows is about three generations of women all trying to do the best they can as they raise their daughters. Each has a tale to tell of their relationships to their mothers, as well as how they relate to their own children.

Sam is the modern mother of an infant. She can’t bear to be separated from her daughter for even short times. She knows she can’t go back to the woman she was before her baby was born, even though there’s a part of her that longs to create art wit...more
Laurie Wallace
I absolutely loved this book. The interweaving stories of these successive generations of women (five in all, with a focus on the middle three), was just fascinating, heart-warming, and I grew to love each of the characters, Violet, Iris, and Samantha, as I also grew to understand them in the midst of their very different struggles and lives. I love genealogy and have been in a study of my own ancestral women's lives through pictures and census records, and this book just drove it all home to me...more
Itsjustme-wendy
Wow, what an incredible story. This is basically about three women, three generations (Grandmother, Mother, and Daughter) all grown women, three different time periods.

Violet - I believe early 1900's (there are no dates in this book, that would have been helpful).basically raising herself on the streets of NY city due to a druggie, vagabond mother who will do anything for money. At eleven yrs old her mother puts her on the "Orphan Train" headed for the west.
Iris - (Violet's daughter) Iris has ca...more
Jillian
Normally, after reading a book, I allow myself a week or so to process what I’ve read before I write a review. However, every now and then, I’ve read a book that has consumed me in a way that I feel that I must, MUST, write about it and let others know that it affected me and that if they are looking for something to read they should consider finding this book the minute it comes out and allowing it to consume them, as well. Mothers and Daughters by Rae Meadows is one such book.

In Mothers and Da...more
Debra
In mothers & daughters, Rae Meadow’s tells a story of 3, (with bits and pieces of 5), generations of females. I liked the way she used multiple voices to interweave the story. The shifts between Violet, Iris, and Samantha were seamless. Violet’s mother, Lilibeth’s story needs to be told. I think a story of a much older Samantha, and her daughter Ella, needs to be told.
Meadow’s well written novel warms the heart and holds the reader spellbound to each woman’s different perspectives, story of...more
Annemarie
Moeders en dochters – Rae Meadows

Vier generaties in één boek. Meadows gaat uit van de vrouwen van één familie, de moeders en de dochters met allen zo’n verschillend leven. Zo’n verschillende achtergrond en daarmee ook een andere aanpak in de omgang met hun dochters.

Bij dit boek vond ik het lastig om in het verhaal te komen bij de eerste paar hoofdstukken. Vanuit het heden neemt Meadows je een hoofdstuk later mee terug in de tijd van 1900 met de paard en wagens met een verhaal over een meisje van...more
Heather
You know, I’m not a mother, but I am a daughter. And even my mother has begun to send me “Mother’s Day” cards, because although I am 41, divorced and childless, and it appears I will likely never birth a child, she says I am still a “mother” to many in the world and care for many. I'm a mother at heart, if not in function. So I could identify with this book and its characters on many levels.

There was a lot for me to relate to in this book, despite my not having children.

This story was about thre...more
Katrina
Jun 07, 2012 Katrina rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Women who like Realistic Fiction
Shelves: adult, fiction
I liked Meadows' use of multiple voices to tell this multi-generational story. I also liked all the characters--well Sam wasn't my favorite but she grew on me. My favorite character by far was Violet; she had the most spunk and the biggest adversity to overcome. I've always been interested in the orphan trains and like hearing about some of the specific reasons kids ended up on them (FYI, not all were orphans). Because of Violet's story I guess this book could be categorized as historical fictio...more
Nate Capone
Awwww, I really liked this book. Something about the different points of view and the weaving of decision and circumstance that flow down to the next generation was really captivating. I could understand if someone wasn't a fan of this one though, as it does lack an overall plot and doesn't really go anywhere.

So if you're looking for an adventure, this is probably not the book you should be choosing. If instead you enjoy the topic of, hmmm, I suppose the human condition, then you will probably...more
Linda Mchugh
This book reminded me of another book I had read, Orphan Train. It was very similar. A young woman who just had a baby and is just getting used to motherhood discovers her great grandmother Violet was on one of the orphan trains. Flashbacks and going from one time era to another. Wonder which book came first.
Becki
Dec 19, 2011 Becki added it
Summary from B&N: A rich and luminous novel about three generations of women in one family: the love they share, the dreams they refuse to surrender, and the secrets they hold.
And they sure do hold a lot of secrets. It was amazing how little these three women – grandmother, mother, daughter – know of each other. It makes me think about how well the people “close” to me really know (or don’t know) me.
The chapters alternate between Violet (grandma), Iris (mother), and Samantha (now adult daug...more
Kelly
I came across this book in the library, as I was looking through the new books section. I'm so happy I picked it up! This book really touched me. As you can tell by the title, it's a story about the relationship between mothers & daughters. The book tells the story of three generations of a family, alternating chapters between the women's different point of views. As children, I think we tend to forget that our moms had lives before we came along - we like to think that we know all the answe...more
Ann Marie
I thought this book was well written and I enjoyed the stories of the three main characters, Samantha, Iris and Violet. I didn't feel like the grandmother, Violet was woven into the story as well as she could have been in respect to the other characters, Iris (her daughter) and Sam (her granddaughter). I kept expecting Samantha to have some great revelation that would come from her family's past, but instead it was really about how each character dealt with their own struggles. I would recommend...more
Mary
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Jaime Townzen
Interesting glimpse into the lives of multiple generations of women in the same family, who -- despite how little they know one another in reality -- resemble one another remarkably despite their very different upbringings.
Marge Prohofsky


I read this one for my book group. I never take much stock in reading the book jacket synopsis that seemed to disappoint so many readers that reviewed this book, so I wasn't disappointed in the storyline myself. The book explores the difficult physical and emotional changes that some new mothers experience by following one new mother as she navigates her life with a baby. It also looks at the past mother-child relationships, which were so different based upon the circumstances and opportunities...more
Emily
Mothers and Daughters is a book written in three voices. Violet is an 11-year old orphaned by her mother in NYC. She ends up in the midwest after riding the "orphan train" and eventually becomes a mother to Iris. Iris is a women enduring the end stages of cancer, and mother to Sam. Sam is a 30 something mother of an 8 month old daughter.

The idea of telling the story of three generations of women in this way is intriguing. The underlying theme of loss and transition is poignant. However, the cha...more
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Rae Meadows is the author of Calling Out, which received the 2006 Utah Book Award for fiction, and No One Tells Everything, a Poets & Writers Notable Novel. She lives with her husband and two daughters in Minneapolis, Minnesota. "
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“In a span of months she had present for birth and for death, the wondrous first breath and the horrible last. But wasn't it an honor to be there at the end of life as well as the beginning? To mark the extraordinariness of a lifetime, to bear witness to its completion?” 3 likes
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