Julie Ann Weinstein's Blog

July 29, 2014

セフレという存在はとても都合良く接して出会っていくことができます。


自分が忙しいときには絶対に構う必要はありませんし、今日はやる気にはならないと思うときには会わないようにすれば良いだけですから自由に付き合うことができます。


そして、セフレ同士の都合がつき、セックスがしたくてたまらない状態にあるときには予定を立てて出会える時間や場所を早くに決めて出会っていけば良いのです。


セフレ相手に深く重い関係になっていくようなことはほとんどありませんから気を楽にして付き合うことができるところに魅力を感じている人はたくさんいます。


なかなか恋人がいると自由に自分の時間を確保してみたり、たまには一人の時間を過ごすことも難しくなってしまうのかもしれませんが、セフレとのお付き合いになると自由に過ごすことができるのでそう大きなストレスを抱えてしまうこともありません。


複数ものセフレを掛け持ちしていけば、とある人とはなかなか都合がつかなくても他のセフレに連絡を取ってみることで都合がつく場合がありますから一人だけのセフレさんに夢中になっていくのではなく、複数のセフレをキープしておくことで本当にヤりたいときに呼び出し会える関係になれます。

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Published on July 29, 2014 01:02

セフレを探している女性は、彼とのセックスに満足できていない、もっとセックスを楽しみたいと思っている方が多いようですが、だからといって男性のテクニック自慢には辟易してしまうようです。


よく出会い系サイトのプロフィールにセックステクニックには自信があります。

と書き込んでいる男性を見かけますが、これは全くの逆効果と言っていいでしょう。

男性の言うテクニックと、女性が求めるテクニックとは全く別物といっても過言ではありません。


女性は相手がたとえセフレだとしても、心のつながりを求めます。

彼とのセックスに満足できない。

と書かれていたからといって、彼にテクニックが無い。

ということにはなりません。

どちらかというと、彼女に対しての思いやりのない独りよがりなセックスをする相手に対して満足出来ない、と書き込む女の子が多いようです。


例えば女性がさびしがり屋であるなら、まずは真剣に話を聞いてあげることが必要です。

話し相手がほしい、と書かれていたら、私で良ければなんでも相談してください、と相手に返してあげて下さい。

趣味の話をしてきたら、全く興味が無くてももっと知りたい、と返しましょう。

常に優しさを忘れないでアプローチすることが大切です。

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Published on July 29, 2014 01:01

September 17, 2011

The review of my story collection, Flashes from the Other World and interview is published  in the September issue of The Short Review.




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Published on September 17, 2011 23:15 • 40 views

September 13, 2011

The review of my story collection, Flashes from the Other World and interview is published  in the September issue of The Short Review.




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September 9, 2011

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Flashes from the Other World

Julie Ann Weinstein

All Things That Matter Press

9780984621644 14.95, Available on Amazon.com


"I have to say that I have never read "flash" fiction before. I wasn't sure exactly what I would find.

Inside the pages of this book were many short stories, but not the kind I was use to reading. It took me a little bit to sink my teeth into them, but when I did I just let myself go and enjoyed.


"The stories are wild and wacky, scary and secretive, magical and free. Many make no sense to the natural realm, yet pull at the imagination within you and beg you to fly away with them. Others tenderly pulled on my heartstrings, and some made me giggle. Yet others held a hint of true sadness. It was like a smorgasbord of many delicious treats that beckons you to partake. Different, fresh and inviting. Thank you Julie for sharing."


Shirley Priscilla Johnson


Senior Book Reviewer


Midwest Book Review


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Girls With Insurance Book Review


"Julie Ann Weinstein's Flashes from the Other World in an eclectic assortment of flash fiction stories all based around the themes of the absurd, the paranormal, and the relationships that life weaves in its' grand tapestry of coincidence. Weinstein looks at the little bumps in the road that we all face, steering us in a direction we may have otherwise never noticed. These stories take ordinary days and make them exceptional memories.


Most of the stories take paranormal views and expand on the moments that raise the hair on the back of your neck. Not necessarily terrifying, but the odd circumstances that carry a more spiritual purpose that everyone knows isn't just chance. There are tales that will make you shake your head and laugh at the bizarre, and others that will have you thinking it were a time you lived yourself. There are also wild tales of sheer imagination, arguing peas and carrots, and provocative whipped creaming throwing out some information for anyone wise enough to listen. The language in the stories is crisp and precise, staying true to flash fiction form. Weinstein uses a voice that captures all of her characters individually, which makes each story unique in its telling.


Flashes from the Other World is a great collection to take with you as you go about your day. It highlights many things often overlooked and that is what makes this book a great read. You can imagine these things happening and will gain a little bit of the curiosity towards the world around you that Weinstein incorporates perfectly into her tales."


Zach Fischel


Girls With Insurance





Zach Fishel is an Associate Editor with Girls With Insurance. He also is a graduate student at Toledo University where he is studying Literature and Creative Writing. He believes that the Beat Generation will return, and has had work appear in numerous publications including fourpaperletters, Amphibi, The Driftwood Review, Yes, Poetry, The Hemlock,  and Mad Swirl among others.







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Published on September 09, 2011 19:33 • 25 views

August 24, 2011

 


This is great news. Powells is the place to be and a favorite independent book store in Oregon. They're now carrying Flashes from the Other World and books by my author friends at All Things That Matter Press. Check them out and support your independent book store.




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Published on August 24, 2011 18:57 • 28 views

August 19, 2011

Launched Kindle Indie Bookstore


We are excited to announce the launch of the Kindle Indie Bookstore (www.amazon.com/kindleindiebooks) on Amazon.com. This page will provide readers a convenient way to explore and browse some of the indie selection available on Kindle from KDP authors and publishers. We hope the Kindle Indie Bookstore will showcase top selling, popular and high quality books from independent authors and publishers. "We are excited to highlight our growing selection of indie books to Kindle readers through the launch of the Kindle Indie Bookstore and provide this new avenue of exposure to KDP authors and publishers," said Atif Rafiq, General Manager, Kindle Direct Publishing. Please read the Kindle Indie Bookstore FAQ for answers to commonly asked questions.




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Published on August 19, 2011 23:14 • 31 views

August 18, 2011

 


Just in time for the end of summer reading and the fall rush.  The editors at All Things That Matter Press have shared some tips on why books sell.


"There is no replacement for a good book. Quality products repay our marketing investment because once other people learn about and interact with the product, they are much more likely to buy it and recommend it to others.


There are lots of different kinds of books, and we can point to a few clear reasons why some books sell better than others:


* It has unique information that's in demand, but that cannot be found anywhere else

* It solves a problem that many people have

* The story is compelling and/or entertaining

* The author is a celebrity

* The book is already selling and people start telling others about the book


This last point is the ultimate goal of our marketing efforts. You cannot force people to buy your book, no matter how much you spend on advertising or how many times you appear in television shows. A friend who tells you that you just "have to read it" is far more powerful than any other influence for most people.

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August 17, 2011

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July 20, 2011

Spin the wheels of fiction in these fun fiction contests.




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