I was forty last week and, quite surprisingly, nothing fell off, exploded, or drooped without warning... despite warnings that all of those things could happen, and the insistence from certain parties that reaching this great landmark would be enough to strike fear into the heart of the most well-balanced and confident of ladies. Still, I'm much as I was before I hit the big four-o. Just why is it supposed to be big? It was uneventful, in the same way that the New Year always is... but without t