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“when a man can listen to woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift.
He makes it save for her to express herself.
The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust,acceptance,appreciation,admiration,approval, and encouragement that he needs.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Men feel cherished when they are needed.
Women feel cherished when they are loved.

Indonesian version (Bahasa):

Kaum pria jadi termotivasi dan bersemangat kala mereka merasa dibutuhkan.

Kaum wanita jadi termotivasi dan bersemangat kala mereka merasa dicintai.”
― John Gray

“To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are. Through loving a person we awaken their awareness of their own innate goodness. It is as though they cannot know how worthy they are until they look into the mirror of our love and see themselves.”
― John Gray

“حاجات النساء للشعور بالتحسن عن طريق التحدث عن المشكلات أما الرجال عن طريق حل المشكلات”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“‎" when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom ”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“ان اكبر تحديات الرجل ترجمة كلام المرأة اذا تحدثت و مساندتها بالتفهم والتأييد المناسبين للموقف و لمشاعرها... و اكبر تحديات المرأة تأويل صمت الرجل و مساندته بتقبله و دعمه بان تترك له المساحة التي يحتاج اليها”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Our lives are more like fragmentary dreams than the enactments of conscious selves. We control very little of what we most care about; many of our most fateful decisions are made unbeknownst to ourselves. Yet we insist that mankind can achieve what we cannot: conscious mastery of its existence. This is the creed of those who have given up an irrational belief in God for an irrational faith in mankind.”
― John Gray

“Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“تتحدث النساء لنفس الاسباب التي يتوقف الرجال بسببها عن الكلام”
― John Gray

“Wanita senang hatinya bila mempunyai teman yang dapat berbagi kesulitannya.

Lelaki senang hatinya bila dapat memecahkan kesulitannya sendirian di guanya.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Get the love you deserve and gave your partner the love and support he deserves”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Salah satu hal ajaib mengenai kehidupan.

Saat muridnya siap, sang guru muncul.
Saat pertanyaan diajukan, jawabannya datang.
Saat kita benar-benar siap menerima, apa yang kita butuhkan akan tersedia.

Ketika penduduk Venus siap menerima, orang-orang Mars siap memberi." (dikutip dari buku: Pria dari Mars, Wanita dari Venus)”
― John Gray

“Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love .
The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“المشاركة في مشكلاتك مع شخص آخر تعتبر على سطح الزهرة في الحقيقة علامة حب وثقة وليس عبئا”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“we are unique individuals with unique experiences”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“تشعر المرأه بالدعم والمسانده اذا صدق الرجل مشاعرها , ويشعر الرجل بالرعاية والاهتمام اذا وافقته المرأة افكارها ”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“في المرة المقبلة ؛ عندما تكون محبطاً من الجنس الآخر تذكر أن الرجال من المريخ و النساء من الزهرة ، وحتى لو م تتذكر أي شيء من هذا الكتاب - يقصد كتاب المريخ و الزهرة - فتذكّرك أنه من المفترض أن نكون مختلفين سيساعدك على أن تكون أكثر حباً.”
― John Gray

“That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person.”
― John Gray, Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship

“Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“The fate of the Right in the late modern age is to destroy what remains of the past in a vain attempt to recover it.”
― John Gray, False Dawn: The Delusions of Global Capitalism

“بعد أن تعلم أهل المريخ كيف ينصتون حققوا أعظم اكتشاف مدهش، لقد بدأوا يدركون أن الانصات لزهرية تتحدث عن مشكلات يمكن حقا أن يساعدهم على الخروج من كهوفهم، مثلما هو الحال عند مشاهدة مبارة في التلفزيون أو قراءة الصحف.”
― John Gray

“كانت أصعب مهمة بالنسبة إلى سوزان هي أن تتدرب على طلب ما تريد، قالت لي "لماذا يجب علي أن أطلب بعد كل ما فعلت من أجله؟!؛ وضحت لها أن تحمليه مسئولية معرفة رغباتها ليس فقط غير واقعي، بل هو سبب جزء كبير من مشكلتها. كانت تحتاج إلى أن تكون مسئولة عن جعل رغباتها تتحقق.”
― John Gray

“Global laissez-faire is not a conspiracy of corporate America. It is a tragedy - one of several that have occurred in the twentieth century - in which an hubristic ideology runs aground on enduring human needs that it has failed to comprehend.”
― John Gray